Thursday, October 28, 2010

Girls help, which nightie will send the right message?

I totally treat my BF like the man he is,I will get him a beer when he is watching football, or go to his softball games and sit with the other guys girlfriends (I even wear one of his jerseys which is way too big on me), but he still treats me like one of the guys even though I am totally the girl in the relationship . Everyone knows we are gay, and like, at the softball game, the other girls in the stands talk to me like I am one of the girls. I even go out to dinner with the girls every Wednesday night. The boys play softball Monday night so it'is girls night out Wednesday. I am totally one of the girls. On more than one occasion they have told me that they love that I am such a girl. I like being one of the girls, but I want my boyfriend to see that I need him to treat me like a girlfriend..I know it is silly that a boy wants his boyfriend to open the car door, or pull out my chair. Tell me that im pretty. Or just hold me durring a scary movie. I know I am a guy, but I have never really been a guy. So, I am planning to wear something sexy for my boyfriend to show him that I will be his girlfriend in the bedroom but I want him to treat me like a lady the rest of the time. I have always been his girl in the bedroom. I want him to be the man and let me take care of him, but I want to go to a softball game and be able to tell the other girls how sweat my boyfriend is because he sent flowers, I know I am a bit girlie, but isn't it more fun. (my favorite is star gazer lilly) Soooo, which outfit should I wear? Am I such a girl?

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I like the first one better.Girls help, which nightie will send the right message?
Second one.
We don't know all the answers as to how sexual orientation develops. The last I read, it seems to be at least partially a product of the uterine environment. If that's the case, it's not truly genetic (albeit almost definitely at least partially so), but it's part of the environmental effects that we can't control......and, it means that a person could be born gay.



It is not a sin to *be* homosexual. Having the desire is not a sin yet, BUT people can control if the ACT upon them. Thus, while being a homosexual is not a sin, acting upon those urges and engaging in homosexual relations is a sin. To give you another example, many, many people have desires for the opposite sex before marriage. Those desires in and of themselves are not sinful (and during puberty and adolescence, can be rampant), but choosing to dwell on those thoughts or to act upon them before marriage is sinful.



Living a chaste life is very difficult for all of us. In today's society, chastity and purity is nearly impossible. For homosexuals, it's even more difficult as they can never realize their desires in a God-sanctioned relationship. (Chastity may be difficult for heterosexuals, especially before marriage, but there's at least the possibility of eventually falling in love and being able to engage in sexual relations within marriage.) Why God gave them this cross to bear, I don't know. And, we must acknowledge that it is a very difficult cross to bear. However, I also think that *all* of us have been given various crosses to bear, some of them more difficult than others.



homosexuality can thus be a choice of lifestyle. People of all cultures have different urgings, some which are not approved by God. It's up to the individual to discipline himself to not give in to sin. There is no scientific proof of any gene that says someone is homosexual. There are those who have left homosexuality lifestyle, and can help others to find their way as well I guess. As with anything we rely upon and become acclimated to, it is difficult to change.

Girls help, which nighty will send the right message?

I totally treat my BF like the man he is,I will get him a beer when he is watching football, or go to his softball games and sit with the other guys girlfriends (I even wear one of his jerseys which is way too big on me), but he still treats me like one of the guys even though I am totally the girl in the relationship . Everyone knows we are gay, and like, at the softball game, the other girls in the stands talk to me like I am one of the girls. I even go out to dinner with the girls every Wednesday night. The boys play softball Monday night so it'is girls night out Wednesday. I am totally one of the girls. On more than one occasion they have told me that they love that I am such a girl. I like being one of the girls, but I want my boyfriend to see that I need him to treat me like a girlfriend..I know it is silly that a boy wants his boyfriend to open the car door, or pull out my chair. Tell me that im pretty. Or just hold me durring a scary movie. I know I am a guy, but I have never really been a guy. So, I am planning to wear something sexy for my boyfriend to show him that I will be his girlfriend in the bedroom but I want him to treat me like a lady the rest of the time. I have always been his girl in the bedroom. I want him to be the man and let me take care of him, but I want to go to a softball game and be able to tell the other girls how sweat my boyfriend is because he sent flowers, I know I am a bit girlie, but isn't it more fun. (my favorite is star gazer lilly) Soooo, which outfit should I wear?



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I'd pick number one :) I's sexy and sheer and really girly.



Good luck!Girls help, which nighty will send the right message?
i like no.2.
it's best to not wear a outfit at all as it gets in the way of you pussy
the first one =]
the first one, definitely. good luck :)
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  • Hove you ever felt alone....?

    ok well today we went to like a fair thing...oks well it was me, 3 girl frinds and 2 guy friends...ok we didn't really know the 2 guys well one of my friends was one of the guys girlfriend and the other guy was his cousin....so then we went we met them and his cousin really liked one of my friends... (the me and 2 frindes had met him yesterday and we went to drink with them and we all liked my firnds boyfriends cousin.... and so yeah ...) then today we went to the fair and he really likes my friend....so then my other friend sees her frined guy....and so she told me that she likes him...she tels me about him everyday at school lol...so there my friend and her bf...my other frind and the guy that likes her...and my other friend with the guy that she likes and he likes her back and then theres me......all alone...and i knew they all really liked eachother so first 2 of them got lost somewhere then the other 2 and i was left with the guys cousin and my friend....and well i liked him but it was oviouse he liked her and she also liked him....and so they were going to go on a ride and i kinda sauud ok ill go but it was a ride for 2 ....so then when they were getting on i got off and left them alone....the i was witing but the started to kiss like on the ferris weel thing....so im like oks....i turn round and then i see my other 2 friends kissing......and then turn around and see my other 2 frinds walking holding hands....and ahhhh it was the worst feeling i swear....... i was all alone and so i just started to walk of all alone...ahh idk how to explain it but i flt so bad like why doesn't anyone like me ...and what kinda pissed me off is that my friend with the guy i like well we all like ...well im into like bands that are screamo and stuff...and so is this guy...and i play the guitar...and so does he but this friend o mine i had just told her about how this band i love alesana is going to go to lima...which is close to where i live and how i soo had to go see them and she was like how could u like that horrible music and stuff and then the guy says something about alesana about how he likes them and she was like o yeah i love that band ....and said how they were going to lima and how she was going to see them ....and ahhh she toook my personality ....ahh and i guess im kinda quiet and shes more out spoken but i let her cause the guy liked her even before seh took my personality lol....but ahhh idk ...i feel jelouse and like i feel happy for them all i just wish i had someone or that i wouldn't of gone cause i was alone for like 3 hours...and i was mad at them but i know it was't their fault...but i just couldn't help it...and i don't understand how like the like them i know im been mean but ...like one of them is really hmm big...and not that great looking ...and well idk i just don't understand how they have bf and i don't.....i know i probs sound mean ...and yes i am jelouse but ahh idk i just want to have someone .......and im only 15 i know im young and should wait the right guy will come...but i just feel sooo lonely!!! like i just moved countries.... (australia to southamerica) and in australia my friends also had bf and i didn;t but not all of them did so it was ok...but here all of them dooo and im all alone....and idk i just needed to get that out of my system....but idk why won't any guy like me ...and i tell them ahh i feel alone and stuff...but when i frist moved to the school i kinda lied and told them i had had a bf in australia...and so their all like aww but you have andrew... (but the truth is that his a made up guy) and that just makes me feel worse...cause i just go yeah i have him....and idk what am i doing wrong......i feel im ugly .......and idk what to do....my self esteem was always low nd right know its sunk deep deep down somewhere .....

    Hove you ever felt alone....?
    wow man we have much in common i use to feel this way a lot hell i get pissed off and jealous when i see two people kissing. hell i get more when there having intercourse some times i feel that way am 18 your either younger or older than me i feel the same way. is not shame or guilt i have my ways with girls but i wanna find the right one even though is hard to find one. when i felt like this i just got pissed off i started thinking to myself that i was going to be mad a* hell and wont care about know one then it just hit me you need to be tough with your emotions. me whats the worst thing and worst feeling is that sinking feeling the middle of your chest trust me i been there before. and trust me is not a good feeling some times my friend even had took my girl and actually had intercourse with her in the bathroom which was horrible has hell another time my other friend kissed a girl i like and well damn that got me angry and just hell left his a* on the street with no car and the girl had dumped him because he had no car and i did. LOL!! is a funny situation to me but all these guys was never a friend that's why i don't consider no one a friend and i do stuff my self. i feel lonely and all that but it goes away some times is just a feeling that you get and then it goes away don't worry that's how we all operate. low self esteem i don't have that but what you need to do is raise that up don't get your self down because of it keep your head up get angry a* hell to the world scream and keep your self strong. that's what i did but hell i got popular after that so this is what i suggest you do i been there trust me i been there.....Hove you ever felt alone....?
    break it up into paragraphs and shorten it. That is WAY to long sorry bud. Everyone feels alone at sometimes.
    i tried to read it really......so yeah...and like....so it was like...you know...idk...too confusing...and like...so



    do you get my point?
    its normal to feel alone. i have before an now im alone again.. but u will find someoen your still only 15 an one will come along but something i learn is you cant always wait for someone to come along so if you find someone u like ask them out.. good luck

    Does anyone know what movies im talking about?

    Okay so i watched this movie a few years ago %26amp;nd i really liked it but idk what its called %26amp;nd its been really bothering me lately.



    So it was on Sci Fi %26amp;nd it started out with this dude %26amp;nd his girlfriend. His dad worked with the government. Like on top secret stuff %26amp;nd unnatural things like zombies %26amp;nd vampires %26amp;nd stuff. So the dude was kinda rebellious, %26amp;nd one day he %26amp;nd his girlfriend sneaked into some secret lab thing his dad worked for. There they found this human//vampire//zombie thing. Something happened %26amp;nd the human//vampire//zombie thing came to life %26amp;nd bit the guys girlfriend. It was chained to the bed though. Then it went dead again. So then lalala stuff stuff stuff ( i can't remember ) So their like in a car %26amp;nd the girl is saying she's extremely hungry, like to the point of starving. He stops at a gas station %26amp;nd she runs in an opens a twinkie. Then i guess they get out of the store %26amp;nd some how they end up in a cops car. The guys in the front driving the car %26amp;nd the girls in the back with the cops. She sucks there blood out. O_O So the dudes extremely confused %26amp;nd terrified im guessing. %26amp;nd then i can only remember the last part, when theres like this gate %26amp;nd on one side there the guys dad %26amp;nd on the other side theres fire %26amp;nd his girlfriend. He's in the middle. his dad tells him to come back but the guy says something like ';No dad, i belong in this world.'; %26amp;nd walks with his girlfriend into the fire.



    Like i said i watched it a few years ago, %26amp;nd it looks like it was made in the 90's or something. Does anyone know what im talking about?!Does anyone know what movies im talking about?
    Return of the Living Dead 3

    How to get a guy with a girlfriend to like me again?

    okay so this guy obviously liked me but then all of a sudden got a girlfriend. and i dont want to give up on him:( he still flirts a little bit but idont want to get in the way of his girlfriend. please help!! what do i do??How to get a guy with a girlfriend to like me again?
    don't homewreck them. you'll be ';the other girl'; and it'll cause stupid drama. move on.

    I have a little problem...?

    i need to help my friend with something.

    heres the problem...

    i need a master plan on how to get rid of this one guys girlfriend cause my firned wants to go out with him.

    the guy still likes his gf, but likes my friend too. i really need help and my friend needs to win him BEFORE halloween!!

    thanks =)I have a little problem...?
    wat would u do if u were in this position?????I have a little problem...?
    Oh this is easy! First turn off your computer, second, GET A LIFE!!
    dude, that is so freaking bitchy! he is going out with his gf for a reason! get over it!

    Girls are hypocrites?

    SOME are such hypocrites. They come on here and complain about guys cheating on them and then accuse the whole male race for being jerks and p l a y e rs. Also, I see girls coming on here asking how they can get the attention of a guy with a bf. More often that not, the boyfriend is firm with the girl and tells them go away. Girls however, cannot take no for an answer and try and get his attention again and eventaully cause the guy to cheat on his gf. They KNOW he has a bf usually, but cause him to sin anyway. But when it happens to them its the guys fault. Actaully, No,it's YOUR OWN FAULT, so stop crying. Next time think about the guys girlfriend your about to upset. You deserve all you get. As for blaming guys for being players:

    On average, a person has 11 sexual partners throughout their lifetime. Obviously, guys cannot sleep with themselves so for every guy there is girls so you can鈥檛 say that it the guys that are just sleeping around. So, cut out that bs.Girls are hypocrites?
    Geez - angry much? I agree w/ you for the most part. I'm not sure where you're getting the stats but it doesn't matter. You're right about 1 thing: women who go after married men or men with gfs aren't very good women. They do deserve whatever they get. It's especially funny to me when you see women on here who started dating a guy when he was married then has the NERVE to get upset when, after they get married, he starts having an affair on HER. I'm thinking - ok, this was a guy who was willing to cheat once with YOU....why do you think it would be any different with someone else? I personally think women need to take care of one another. They shouldn't treat another woman in a way THEY wouldn't want to be treated. I mean - I wouldn't want some tramp messing w/ my husband so why would I do that to someone else? It's just horrible. People have no morals these days and don't seem to understand what a good r'ship is at all.Girls are hypocrites?
    Is there a question in here? Or are you coming into a question-answering forum to make a point? Go find another soapbox, AFC.
    lol ..cant believe i actually read that whole thing but everythings well put
    So...are you gonna ';turn'; all gay now? Sounds like you're donig a bit of crying right now.
    *applaudes and bows* Nicely done.
    well learn how to deal with it

    im not like that though...
    wow, someone is sure acting like a girl, going on and on and on
    Yeah, SOME girls do that. Remember, he said SOME!



    PS: There's no question.
    you know you are right. us girls are hypocrites i respect your opinion about girls. not all of the girls are like that but yes there are a lot of girls like that.
    hrm, i guess your feeling pretty bad right now. or probably just felt like typing and writing.. although it would be much better if you can put it on a blog or something like that.. :)
    oh pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee............. give us all a break.... not every GIRL, okay?????? it doesn't apply to all... even if the issue applies to the other sex, it still wouldn't...... and this is a hypocrite's question.......
    you really wanted to get your point across didn't you coz the first q was deleted or something like that, anyway back to the question, i agree with you but slightly disagree. I don't act all innocent but since you said ';some'; I'll let it go. anyway just wanted to tell you that i agree with SOME but MOST of the things you mentioned
    wow,some lucky girl really pissed you off!!!yeah us women cheat only because most of you men can't or don't know how to please us. and masterbait for the same reason. i'm so happy to hear a woman has broke your heart. gosh you all are making my day!!!
    jeezuss enough with the drama. first off you spelt girls wrong the whole time do you think youre cool or something?? that whole thing was a huge stereotype but i can kinda see where youre coming from. for insatnce i know i want someone that looks liek david beckham-if i have a 6 pack why cant he? yes im shallow, deal. but seriously girls make decisions with their hearts and guys make them with their....wangs. if a girl cheats he gave her a reason to. if a guy cheats he couldnt resist temptation.
    yes i will admit some girls are hypocrites but defintly not me i dont say something about what somebody's doing and turn around and do the same thing no that's just not me
    Wow. So your saying we are all a peice of bs and you don't give a crap about our feelings?
    my old friend was like that. i hate when girls are like that.thats why im not friends with kimber anymore. girls can be bitches all my friends are guys now.lol.not all girls are like that but most are and it pisses me off.

    girls accuse guys of sleeping aroung but ig you pay attention you see that girls are worse then guys because if you tell them you know they are sleeping around theyll play with your feelings to make it seem like guys are at fault.

    oh well

    cant change em

    im sorry

    i feel your pain

    Girls you are all hypocrites?

    Girls are such hypocrites. They come on here and complain about guys cheating on them and then accuse the whole male race for being jerks and p l a y e rs. Also, I see girls coming on here asking how they can get the attention of a guy with a bf. More often that not, the boyfriend is firm with the girl and tells them go away. Girls however, cannot take no for an answer and try and get his attention again and eventaully cause the guy to cheat on his gf. They KNOW he has a bf usually, but cause him to sin anyway. But when it happens to them its the guys fault. Actaully, No,it's YOUR OWN FAULT, so stop crying. Next time think about the guys girlfriend your about to upset. You deserve all you get. As for blaming guys for being players:


    On average, a person has 11 sexual partners throughout their lifetime. Obviously, guys cannot sleep with themselves so for every guy there is girls so you can鈥檛 say that鈥檚 it鈥檚 the guys that are just sleeping around. So, cut out that bs.Girls you are all hypocrites?
    wow.............first off.....you are totally right. MOST girls are hypocrits, but not all. Girls, in general, are too much drama. That's why most of my friends are guys. I only have 1 friend that is a girl, and the rest are guys. i cant deal with all the drama that comes with being friends with girls. they can be so annoying.





    But on the other hand, your not saying something. either you just cheated on a girl, she accused you of cheating, or she cheated on you. if you wanna talk about it, i'm here.





    email me or IM me sometime.





    my id is:BabesboobearGirls you are all hypocrites?
    man when did this become yahoo rants?
    Not all girls r hypocrites my friends arn't hypocrites I sorta am sometimes but STILL
    I read the first sentence and i disagree. Have you met every girl in the universe? I think not. Nevertheless, it just happens to be mucho nasties of males. But it takes ppl like YOU to prove them wrong. Be the exception to the evil stereotype! And i wouldnt do it by complaining. Just breathe, This world isn't perfect.
    ey, not all girls are hypocrites... only stupid girls are like that. I mean I wouldn't cheat on my boyfriend and he wouln't cheap on me.. and I know that for sure. Oh and I've never had a boyfriend.. it's only the girls that are slutty and stupid. It's not the polite friendly girls.
    are you happy that you got all that out?
    Shut the **** up and go to bed! I can tell it's past your bedtime!!!!
    i'm not a hypocrite
    Sounds like you have been hurt badly so much - that you need therapy. Your comments are all stereotypical and do not reflect a entire gender - male or female.
    I am not going to read this entire question. Girls are just lovely and dandy thank you very much.
    that is so not true


    girls r not hypocrites


    how rude
    im a girl and i think girls and guys are all the same so i dont know why they complain so.. i agree with u but think about wat guys do and wat girls do its pretty much the same :)
    ok... sum girls r hypacrties becuz they r shallow or whatever... (which is prolly ur type... thats y u wrote that cuz u have relationship issue or sumthing)... but anyways, alot of girls like me rnt that way... so u need to get ur facts straight... ur the 1 being a hypacrite and saying all girls r hypacrites when not all girls r... so shut up and think about what ur doing or saying b4 u do smart ***... geez!!!
    i think that a girl did something to you and you just wanted to say something back, and saying girls are hypocrites was not the right thing to say. most cases it is a girls fault but thats not a reason to call us hypocrytes. oh well





    wat can i do?
    Do you want to cry? Break down and cry, then ask your question. But its a proven fact that when it comes to multiple sex partners and cheating, men of every race have the market covered. Black men are the worst (sad to say).


    And I am sure that a guy does not have sex unless he wants to. So no matter how much a sl*t pushes up, if a guy doesn't want to, it doesnt happen. Unless he has the urge to 'tap' it.


    And who said women dont have an active sex drive. You must be very young to be just now learning this. We do.


    And what do you do when you are in a relationship and it doesnt work. You start over and of course we are all human and we all have urges so therefore we have sex. Some people get it right after about two tries, some take longer because of bad choices, so therfore you end up with a few more partners than can be admitted to, it doesnt make anyone worse than anyone. What is wrong is when you use sex as a form of recreation instead of what it is meant to be. A physical act that brings two people who care about each other closer.
    Not all girls are hypocrites. I'm a girl and I know guys aren't always to blame for cheating, I even considered cheating. And duh girls make just as many mistakes and have the same bad habits as guys.
    I agree both men and woman should be held accountable for what they do. The stereotype that men are jerks should not be casted on the whole male race. There are many men out there who treat their women right and it's ashame that most of these men are in a relationship where the woman does not treat them right. There are women out there that sleep around and have cheated before. I am not one of these women and I think no matter who it is male or female doing the cheating the partner should get out of the relationship. I have seen women on tv who act in a bad manner and do hook up with many guys. What I say is don't get caught up in all that is being said. You will find the right person for you who will see that you are not a jerk or a player. Who cares what other people say they don't know you. If you let all of that bother you then you'll be wasting away your life.
    You seem to be a very angry/hurt person. Who the hell hurt you. Yah, girls can be bitches, its life. Guys can also be assholes. Just because some of the whores on this website want a guy to cheat on their gf does NOT mean that all girls are like that. The comments that you are making are EXTREMLY sexist. Do NOT act like guys dont cheat on their gf's with other girls because they want to. Of course they want to do it. The girls might tease the guys, but ultimatley its the guys fault for actually cheating. This doesnt mean that the tease should get off the hook, its both of their faults, but dont act like ever single girl on here who is sad about their bf cheating on them has wanted a guy with a gf to cheat on their gf. GET OVER YOURSELF. Girls dont mind that guys sleep around, they mind the way the guys act after they sleep with them. If they had compassion and didnt spread stupid rumors about the girls, it wouldnt be that big of a deal. Girls should also be held ot that standerd and not spread rumors about guys either. END POINT: both sexes have flaws. DEAL WITH IT. :) and have a nice day ;)
    wow, all i can say is im sorry that you're so upset
    First off, you sound like you either have been burned pretty bad by a girl, or you just in general hate the entire gender. Either way, complaining about and completely tearing apart women on Yahoo! Answers.....isn't exactly going to help you with whatever problems you have.





    Second, I can guarantee you that the girls who come on here and complain about guys cheating on them and the girls who come on here wanting to provoke guys into cheating on their girlfriends are two completely different types of girls. I doubt you can show me one girl who has complained about their bf cheating on them, then later talked about wanting to get with a guy who already has a girlfriend. Also, when ANYONE cheats, regardless of their gender, the person they cheat with is not tying them down and forcing them to cheat, so your theory that the girls provoke the guys to cheat so therefore it's their fault, is completely ridiculous.





    Third, I have no idea where you are getting these statistics from, but they sound completely made up. You sound like someone who really wants to prove their point, and thinks that by shoving random facts in people's faces, you're going to succeed.





    Finally, people are people. There is no good gender and bad gender, this is not Boys vs. Girls. Some people prefer to stay true and loyal to their partners, and some choose to be stupid and betray the person they love. Either way, it has nothing to do with your gender. Women aren't the only ones who complain about being cheated on, because men get cheated on too. I hope you sort out whatever kind of pent up anger against women you have, because spouting off your ridiculous theories here isn't going to help you cope.
    once upon a time, after a whirlwind relationship, Sally Strawberry and Peter Peaches decided to call it quits. quits to the life, the kids, the house鈥?basically everything they planned to share while living out their perfectly invented image of coupledom in foreverdom.





    later, Sally Strawberry moved on and started seeing a new guy 鈥?Gareth Grape. everything was going well until Peter Peaches decided he wanted Sally Strawberry back.





    so, Peter Peaches would call Sally Strawberry every now and then. He would bring up the how good things used to be, how happy they made each other, asked why things couldn't go back to the way they used to be and where they'd be had things been done differently - 'hypothetically speaking', of course.





    And how could we forget? The all so casual inquiry about the new person on the scene. How's鈥?that guy, by the way? Or, Hope everything works out with that chick鈥?whatever her name is. When they very well know what his/her name is. Probably even his/her nationality, school, age and reputation by asking around.





    Some of us may relate to Sally Strawberry, caught between the intentions of an unrelenting old lover, and the innocence of a possible new, if not greater love.





    Maybe you're a Gareth Grape, to have your chances rudely disrupted by someone's emergency case of: ';I just realised he/she's The One so if you could get lost that would be great';.





    Others may identify with Peter Peaches, who will do anything, I mean anything for love.





    What's suddenly given people these ideas thinking they can walk in and out of a relationship as they please?





    Maybe it's the sight of seeing them happy with someone else. Maybe it's the realisation that what used to be is actually meant to be. In any case, it all comes down to one thing. RUDITY. Rude because you've sh*tted all over the clean slate your ex partner has started with someone new... stamping the word selfish smack in the middle of their forehead.





    it can happen to anyone, girl or guy.. some people just cant live with being unhappy themselves that they go ruining someone else's chances of being happy. nobody's perfect.. and life was never fair.. girl or guy, someone has to get the sh*ts.





    take care =)
    Wow..ummm...well, I sort of agree with you. Yeah, guys are not usually the only ones at fault; girls play a part too. But before you go and stereotype all girls, you need to get out and meet some new ones because not all of us are shallow b**ches. Yes, girls can be overly dramatic, and because of that I'm closer to more guys than I am girls. I don't like a bunch of drama and crap, and i don't expect a guy to tolerate it either. But don't go and start blaming everything on the girls. Both sexes have their faults, so don't try to push everything over on us!!
    No we arent thats a frickin stero type like how most girls think guys are shallow assholes but we arent all hypocrites.


    So stop frick in sterotyping people and if thats how you are that makes you a hypocrite!

    Gurls most of your ae just hypocrites!?

    Girls are such hypocrites. They come on here and complain about guys cheating on them and then accuse the whole male race for being jerks and p l a y e rs. Also, I see girls coming on here asking how they can get the attention of a guy with a bf. More often that not, the boyfriend is firm with the girl and tells them go away. Girls however, cannot take no for an answer and try and get his attention again and eventaully cause the guy to cheat on his gf. They KNOW he has a bf usually, but cause him to sin anyway. But when it happens to them its the guys fault. Actaully, No,it's YOUR OWN FAULT, so stop crying. Next time think about the guys girlfriend your about to upset. You deserve all you get. As for blaming guys for being players:

    On average, a person has 11 sexual partners throughout their lifetime. Obviously, guys cannot sleep with themselves so for every guy there is girls so you can鈥檛 say that it the guys that are just sleeping around. So, cut out that bs.Gurls most of your ae just hypocrites!?
    pal you got that right on this matter . in my opion?Gurls most of your ae just hypocrites!?
    not all females are that way just there are some out there that give us that rep. just like the guys do!
    The double standard applies to both sexes. People (both male and female) make their own beds and lie in them.
    I think you need to conquer proper spelling and grammar before your next post. Thanks a bunch!
    A lot of girls know what they want. If they want a boyfriend your right they most likely will cause the guy to cheat on the girl. I never have seen it like that. At first when you said that I felt offended, but you have a point. Thank you for saying that.
    honey, I can't read all this, but it sounds like you're angry. Little boys learning about their bodies use girls and little girls fall for it thinking it's real love. It will never be any different. My advice is to wait until you grow up....real men don't cheat on their wives and real women should wait until they find a man, not a boy.
    i like the fact that you added that not all girls are like that....thank you....however....it was wrong of you to make your first sentence a generalization on girls in general....it seems to me like you have been burned a little...dontcha think...honestly....a girl is a girl...whatever her actions are they are SOLELY based on her persona...not on the general aspect of females...whatever it is she choses to do is her business...if she comes onto here asking for advice on her actions then so be it...you do not need to concern yourself...if you do not like it dont read it simple as that...it is apparent that they feel the need to do what they are doing...and that is the ending case point....you can voice ur opinion and have more haters than friends or you can chose to take it as it is and continue walking because honestly i do not see how it directly affects you....
    shut up, your telling us not to complain about guys when your sitting here complaning about girls! wtf you idiot!!
    my thoughts? ok, here are my thoughts. you are making highly offensive generalizations and expecting us not to be upset. all us girls either know there are skanky girls out there, or know we are one of the skanky girls. so don't think we don't know what you're talkin about. and yeah, we got a sex drive and yeah, some of us are promiscuous. but just like there are some wonderful guys out there, there are some really nice girls who aren't anything like the biatches you're describing. so in a nutshell: some guys are good, some bad, some girls are good, some bad. what else is there to say?
    alright first off not ALL girls are like that god damn it.im not anyways..



    second guys do the same things!!!

    Who should i choose, guy one or guy two?

    so they guy that ive been crushing on for like ever finally broke up with his gf, he broke up with her. and ive cried over him and i really needed him. and he used to flirt with me alott before he had a girlfriend. now some girl from his old school is trying to get with him, or maybe their just friends



    but this other guy whos so sweet and nice and calls me pretty, likes me, and i think i might like him too but he doesnt fit in with my friends at all. but my other friends really like him and think hes really cool and were all hanging out this weekend on saterday and i dont know if i like him because idk if i like him or want attention.



    so heres how i relate it, guy #1 is a light bulb, guy#2 is a window, and i am a bug. the bug is drawn to the light and cant get away, but if its not careful it could get burnt. but the window is wide open just waiting for the bug to make a quick escape from getting burnt my the bulb, and the bug knows its safer. but the bug just loves that light bulb.....



    so should i escape through the window or take my chances with the light bulb?

    So my girlfriend. GUys/Girls PLz HELP!!!?

    okay so me and my girlfriend have been together for allmost 2 months now where both 16 she a virgin im not but

    ive spent alot of time with her in my house alone and all that and she just wants to make out but she tells me she dont know what to do with a guy really how can i come across telling her like too i dont wanan sound dirty but too Get me 'happy'?

    like rubbing/sucking/ect.

    how can i tell her ive tryed putting her hang on there but she will untill i take my hand off her hand then i guess she feels like she shouldnt so how can iSo my girlfriend. GUys/Girls PLz HELP!!!?
    Well, the best bet is just have a candid discussion about it. Honestly, if you guys can't sit down and talk about sexual intimacy in a frank, mature way, you shouldn't be fooling around. When my cousin sent me in to buy condoms for her and her boyfriend, I told her, ';Look, if you can't buy your own condoms, you're not ready to have sex.'; Same idea kinda applies here.So my girlfriend. GUys/Girls PLz HELP!!!?
    shes not ready and i wouldnt push it
    do not, i repeat do not hold her hand on your penis.

    That's way too far, if she moves her hand your obviously pushing her. Go way slower. I feel bad for her. That's a lot of pressure for a 16 year old girl.

    So my GIRLFRIEND Guys/Girls HElp plz!!!?

    okay so me and my girlfriend have been together for allmost 2 months now where both 16 she a virgin im not but

    ive spent alot of time with her in my house alone and all that and she just wants to make out but she tells me she dont know what to do with a guy really how can i come across telling her like too i dont wanan sound dirty but too Get me 'happy'?

    like rubbing/sucking/ect.

    how can i tell her ive tryed putting her hang on there but she will untill i take my hand off her hand then i guess she feels like she shouldnt so how can iSo my GIRLFRIEND Guys/Girls HElp plz!!!?
    if she's a virgin then she probably won't unless she falls in love with you. only 2 months together you say? that is not nearly long enough to move below the waist. i say just give it some time. how well do you know her? do you know her values? maybe she wants the first guy she does anything with to be a virgin as well. the fact that you are not a virgin may scare her due to the rapid increase in people with stds. not all girls are easy. she's obviously still innocent and it should stay that way until she's married because that's the right thing to do. if you really care about her and want to be with her then what's the rush? if instant physical gratification is more important than your relationship however, well then find a new gf perhaps? as the relationship progresses things might begin to ';get happy'; so to speak. infinite patience produces immediate results.So my GIRLFRIEND Guys/Girls HElp plz!!!?
    from the sounds of this, she wants to but isnt sure how to, so if u put her hand there n u take ur hand off n so does she just put it back, she will get the picture, plus u might need to be suggestive n kinda tell her what u want her 2 do
    just ask her!

    duh

    im sure she wants to
    damn dude you are 16 dont worry about getting any just worry about maintaining a steady stable relationship and then all of that will come when she feels comfortable with you then it will and then you guide her
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  • So my girlfriend. GUys/Girls PLz HELP!!!?

    okay so me and my girlfriend have been together for allmost 2 months now where both 16 she a virgin im not but

    ive spent alot of time with her in my house alone and all that and she just wants to make out but she tells me she dont know what to do with a guy really how can i come across telling her like too i dont wanan sound dirty but too Get me 'happy'?

    like rubbing/sucking/ect.

    how can i tell her ive tryed putting her hang on there but she will untill i take my hand off her hand then i guess she feels like she shouldnt so how can iSo my girlfriend. GUys/Girls PLz HELP!!!?
    Well, the best bet is just have a candid discussion about it. Honestly, if you guys can't sit down and talk about sexual intimacy in a frank, mature way, you shouldn't be fooling around. When my cousin sent me in to buy condoms for her and her boyfriend, I told her, ';Look, if you can't buy your own condoms, you're not ready to have sex.'; Same idea kinda applies here.So my girlfriend. GUys/Girls PLz HELP!!!?
    shes not ready and i wouldnt push it
    do not, i repeat do not hold her hand on your penis.

    That's way too far, if she moves her hand your obviously pushing her. Go way slower. I feel bad for her. That's a lot of pressure for a 16 year old girl.

    So my GIRLFRIEND Guys/Girls HElp plz!!!?

    okay so me and my girlfriend have been together for allmost 2 months now where both 16 she a virgin im not but

    ive spent alot of time with her in my house alone and all that and she just wants to make out but she tells me she dont know what to do with a guy really how can i come across telling her like too i dont wanan sound dirty but too Get me 'happy'?

    like rubbing/sucking/ect.

    how can i tell her ive tryed putting her hang on there but she will untill i take my hand off her hand then i guess she feels like she shouldnt so how can iSo my GIRLFRIEND Guys/Girls HElp plz!!!?
    if she's a virgin then she probably won't unless she falls in love with you. only 2 months together you say? that is not nearly long enough to move below the waist. i say just give it some time. how well do you know her? do you know her values? maybe she wants the first guy she does anything with to be a virgin as well. the fact that you are not a virgin may scare her due to the rapid increase in people with stds. not all girls are easy. she's obviously still innocent and it should stay that way until she's married because that's the right thing to do. if you really care about her and want to be with her then what's the rush? if instant physical gratification is more important than your relationship however, well then find a new gf perhaps? as the relationship progresses things might begin to ';get happy'; so to speak. infinite patience produces immediate results.So my GIRLFRIEND Guys/Girls HElp plz!!!?
    from the sounds of this, she wants to but isnt sure how to, so if u put her hand there n u take ur hand off n so does she just put it back, she will get the picture, plus u might need to be suggestive n kinda tell her what u want her 2 do
    just ask her!

    duh

    im sure she wants to
    damn dude you are 16 dont worry about getting any just worry about maintaining a steady stable relationship and then all of that will come when she feels comfortable with you then it will and then you guide her

    How do I be a good girlfriend to a guy with a really short fuse?

    He get's angry very easily. Like, if someone looks at him funny he starts getting pissed off and essh... How do I calm him down and be supportive w/o being naggy or bossy? Any girls have any advice on dating a guy with a hot temper? Any guys with hot tempers have any advice on how you'd like your gfriend to act? Thanx!How do I be a good girlfriend to a guy with a really short fuse?
    Has he always been hot tempered? Or did he become hot tempered in some period of time?



    Anyway, hot temper is mostly caused by, either unresolved anger (usually due to unable to fulfill self expectations), or having too much stress.



    You could try talking to him to help find the problem or reason why he gets upset and angry. Helping him let it out will help ease his anger and stress, since guys usually keep everything to themselves (Its expected of men to be able to take anything! They can't show their weaknesses and have to be tough practically all the time, except when they're alone.) So, it'll be kind of difficult to really get him to open up to you at first, but if you keep trying, he might just feel comfortable enough to let you in.



    Besides that, you should ask him to do his part in managing his temper. He should let out his anger instead of keeping it inside, but only when he's alone. I too am hot tempered, usually I'll punch walls and stuffs like that. Shouting really helps, but it disturbs the neighbors though.How do I be a good girlfriend to a guy with a really short fuse?
    It definitely sounds like he has a short fuse. Maybe try to get to know him more and see why he gets so angry easily. It probably has something to do with his past. If it is really bad he really needs to attend anger management. Trust me, there is not anything you can do except be there for him and lend him your ears, you know? If he is really that bad then he needs to see a professional. Good luck! :)
    when i get pissy my girl grabs me holds me smiles and stares at me till i cool off nomatter how pissed i get
    Seems to me that a guy with this sort of problem needs to work out his issues/problems before thinking about having a girlfriend. Seriously, a guy like this doesn't deserve a girlfriend.
    When his temper is about to blow don't calm him down by saying 'calm down'. That will make things worse cause telling people to calm down never works. Since your his girl then just shift his attention to you. Put your hand on his lap, hold his hand, kiss him or w/e.

    P.S. breaking up with him will probably be a really bad idea if he has a bad temper.



    answer mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    Watch out, a short fuse can be a warning sign that this dudes abusive. He can end up hurting your feelings or hitting you.
    Guys would bad tempers usually go on to be abusive towards their wives and/or girlfriends. Unless this guy is willing to acknowledge that he first of all has a problem, and secondly, seeks counseling or gets help for his problem, it would be in your best interest to get out of this relationship before it is too late. I know a few women who were involved with guys with tempers like your boyfriend and two of them were actually murdered by these guys. It may not seem like a life threatening situation now, but unless he gets help it will only get worse. I pray you make the right decision. Peace and God bless.
    The best advice I or many people can give you is; RUN, RUN as fast as you can. The last thing you need is for a guy who can't control his temper. You think it is bad now; wait until you get more involved with him and he starts to beat the living hell out of you and then says, ';oh, I'm so sorry, it will never happen again.'; Your just asking to have your life taken from you. If you don't believe what I am saying; Put ';men with bad tempers'; in your browser and read the sad stories. I wish you well and I also wish you the fastest feet in town. Move on and enjoy life with a man that treats you like a woman.
    You see sometimes when my bf is in a agitated mood and lets say someone whispers something bad about him and let me say it's about his height. He's 6'11 and I'm 5'3 yes very odd but I love em and I mean all of him. Unlike some females I have a very overactive sexual appetite.



    So lets give it a scenario?



    Let's say me and my boyfriend are at a restaurant and there are two guy friends sitting at a table behind us. (Rarely this happens but it did happen once or twice)



    Anyways the guys behind us are talking smack saying ';how did a tall as giant get that?'; ';I know I bet if I try'd I could hit that'; ';Whatever man I could hit that before you';



    My boyfriend gets mad and gets up and starts yelling at the guys behind us and is about to hit him I have three options that are sure to work.



    1. Get in front of him and hug him.

    That way he'd be shock and like what the hell?



    2. Kiss him and slip in a little tongue.

    That way he'd be to into the kiss to do anything.



    3. Whisper tempting things in his ear if he stops I'll do something I dont regularly do on a daily basis.



    That may not work but that's what helps me i like option 3 the most though ;P
    Well, I'm confused here honestly. Is he really your boyfriend? Or are you having a crush on him? If he is your boyfriend, try to talk to him and help him as much as possible. If you are just having a crush on him, I dont think he has much interest in you. No disrespect. Guys get frustrated when girls or other people annoys or bugs them. They would try to get away from it.
    Smile , lift up your foot, insert in buttocks.



    kick him to the curb, and find a guy who treats you like a princess :)
    Dump him?
    Their might be several approaches. First, does he agree that he has a bad temper? If so, you can discuss having a way to tell him when his overreacting. Kindly and with respect. If he doesn't see it perhaps you could find anything in his response that shows some restraint and praise him for it. You might choose to discuss this with him when he is relaxed and happy. Maybe you could tell him you are a bit scared of him at those times and want to help him to chill. But always leave him feeling loved and like a man. Express respect and admiration for his power (and now restraint). Good Luck

    How do I keep this going with a girl who is pregnant?

    Well how do I began........I have a one and a half year old kid and now a 10 week pregnant girlfriend who I think is seeing someone else.She just moved out of her moms house and in to her own apt.For right now I live 4 hour away from her and go see her and my child every weekend.We had a big fight that went all the way to court ,and now we both just realized that we both still love each other and should give it a try again .Well when she told me she was pregnant,she said that she did not want to keep it and I did.She said that she just could not do this right now and there was no way right now that we could,so after that I was like maybe she is right and I was like we can't have this.So she went back home and it seemed like her mom and her friends told her they would help.so it as like if there is going to be someone there to help me then we our have this baby!!!I was mad as hell.To me it seem that she wanted out of her mom house to getting pregnant lead to her mom saying you have to go and I will pay half of your rent and that what is going on right now!I was mad as hell and I did say some mean things.There was a time I tried to brake up because I was not happy with what was going on,but she did not want to do that,but she did say if I don't love her then someone else will.Will a few weeks ago it seem like she stop caling me as much as she did, and she seemed like she only could talk for a few sec,and one time we just did not talk to each other for a day.Well the first day at her apt I picked up her cell phone and seen that she had been talking to some guy that she was dating right before we had got back together.She had said that she quit talking to him because she said she loved me.So in her cell I had seen that she had called him and he had called her.Then in the text it it said that he was going to get a room and she said yeah ok!So when I asked her about the text she lied and she she did not text him,and the about 3 min later she said im sorry I did talk with him.She hit me with well you said you were going to brake up with me and I just need someone to talk to.Every time I bring up the text she acts as if I did not read the dam thing.What should I do?I know she is the type of girl that if one guy ain't loving her she will go some where else and get it!How do I keep this going with a girl who is pregnant?
    Sounds like she is very hormonal right now and needs affection from a man. If you are going to be there for her and the baby you need to step it up now. No more fighting and no more telling her you dont want to be with her any more. Tell her how you feel and that if you love her, tell her that too and say you want to be there for her and the baby. Only you, and going forward only you. That you want her to stop talking to the other guy. If you were technically not going out or about to break up she really didn't cheat on you with the other guy, they were just talking. Be grown up about all this, you are about to be a father again! GL!How do I keep this going with a girl who is pregnant?
    I agree with the first answer. I am 20 years old and have a 18 month old baby boy and I went through the SAME EXACT thing as what you are typing I actually thought you were my sons father for a quick second and realized obvioulsy not lol but we are very hormonal and just want affection stop telling her crap and just take care of her take her out while she is pregnant do nice things together while you can because baby is coming soon and before you know it all that sweet stuff will be slightly over because you will be taking care of a baby. Get it together as a matter of fact get off this yahoo answers and drive 4 hours to her house right now. And tell her how you feel trust me she will LOVE IT I know I would.

    Is it normal for guys to act like this? I'll try to explain it clearly...?

    A) is me (girl).

    B) my best friend (girl)

    C) my best friend and B's boyfriend (guy)

    D) friend (guy... girlfriend)

    E) an older (and stronger) friend (guy... no girlfriend)

    F) E's best friend (guy... girlfriend)

    G) creeper (guy... no girlfriend)



    I used to like person D and he liked me. B also liked him, but she is now going out with C, long story. Now, D's having girlfriend troubles, they've been going out for 18 mths. calls me all the time.

    Person G is the worst of the million guys that won't leave me alone. messes with me all the time... has asked me out but i clearly told him no. wouldn't leave me alone, now E pretends to be my boyfriend (his idea) to get G to quit. I've gotten to be good friends with F, he's really cool and trusts me. E isn't very talkative and he's intimidating. he also gets mad at guys that mess with me and send me perverted messages etc. not sure if he likes me, but i've realized i like him.



    guys, is this normal? how do i handle it?Is it normal for guys to act like this? I'll try to explain it clearly...?
    You couldn't have made it more confusing if you had tried. =/ Just type out the names. :(

    My girlfriends guy friend is really touchy, what to do?

    Me and my girlfriend have been dating for over a year now and theres this guy, who my girlfriend has been friends with for awhile and I started being friends with him when me and my girlfriend started dating. He acts kind of gay, but I know for a fact he is straight because he has had several serious and long relationships with girls. The problem is he is always really touchy with other girls (so its not just my gf), the other day he jumped on top of my girlfriend and hugged her while rubbing his cheek against hers and has came up from behind her and hugged with his arms around her waist. Also he has gotten right up into her face and had his face like 2 inches away from hers.



    Now I have a very seirous problem with this, and I would assume most guys would. I told my girlfriend to tell him to stop because I don't like it at all because I wouldn't even do some of the things he does in public to her and she is getting mad at me because she thinks I am over reacting because he acts gay and he is just her friend. But I am not over reacting because most guys would have threatened the guy by now.



    How can I get it across that it is NOT okay, and get her to tell him because I don't want to tell him because she'll get even madder and he is my friend so I cant threaten him.My girlfriends guy friend is really touchy, what to do?
    Dude, if he is not touching you, you don't have a problem. If he is touchy with you, then you only have a problem if you like it.My girlfriends guy friend is really touchy, what to do?
    To be honest you're not overreacting at all, if you want his behaviour to stop then you should just quietly and maturely say to him that you think he's acting inappropriately towards your girlfriend(i know you said that he does it to everyone but that doesn't make it right) You shouldn in no way threaten him because he's your friend too and he'd proably only touch her more to annoy you .



    Hope i helped,

    :)

    Can a Fat guy get a girlfriend?

    I'm 19 years old, never had a girlfriend. All girls turn me down, I weigh 360 pounds, and I am a little slow. I went to ';Special Education'; in highscool so at least I am special. I don't know why a girl wouldn't want to go out with such a swell special guy like me :(



    How can a special fat guy find his gorgeous dairy queen?Can a Fat guy get a girlfriend?
    Dude, there's hope for you yet!



    Here's a link to an article about a guy who weighs over half a ton and is getting married:



    http://www.azcentral.com/offbeat/article鈥?/a>



    I guess the line that there's someone out there for everybody really IS true.Can a Fat guy get a girlfriend?
    FAKEEEEEEEEEE QUESTION!!



    -refers to your other question-



    ';My girlfriend has a problem, she gets really really horny and gets submissive when I start kissing her. She used to have a problem watching porn the same amount as a guy.';
    shut up fat ***



    you such at trolling
    dont take me seriously, but i think ur obese. 163 kgs is not a healthy weight. but ur physical appearence shud not matter. really, as long as u have girls in this world hu value u for the person u r, there shud not be a problem. but do try to reduce ur weight, cos then u will have health problems dear.



    take care.
    So I guess you don't have anorexia anymore? Below is your question from 8 months ago. You posted another question where you said you were 6'1'; - if you were really 19 you would get a life.



    I starve myself, and you can see my rib cage and everything, I'm not sure if people would think I'm anorexic or not. Some of my friends mentioned it, but am I under weight I'm 5'6';?


    Are u sick of gurls victimising guys with their bs?

    Girls are such hypocrites. They come on here and complain about guys cheating on them and then accuse the whole male race for being jerks and p l a y e rs. Also, I see girls coming on here asking how they can get the attention of a guy with a bf. More often that not, the boyfriend is firm with the girl and tells them go away. Girls however, cannot take no for an answer and try and get his attention again and eventaully cause the guy to cheat on his gf. They KNOW he has a bf usually, but cause him to sin anyway. But when it happens to them its the guys fault. Actaully, No,it's YOUR OWN FAULT, so stop crying. Next time think about the guys girlfriend your about to upset. You deserve all you get. As for blaming guys for being players:

    On average, a person has 11 sexual partners throughout their lifetime. Obviously, guys cannot sleep with themselves so for every guy there is girls so you can鈥檛 say that it the guys that are just sleeping around. So, cut out that bs.Are u sick of gurls victimising guys with their bs?
    WOW, preach on lil brother!!, I agree.Are u sick of gurls victimising guys with their bs?
    YES! Thank you!
    Whats the question dumb ***??
    Actually guys are more shallow and do want more sex than women. Guys sexually mature faster than girls and usually just want pleasure. Incase u havnt notices tho more women r victamised and hav been victimized for much longer than men. O yeah men do cheat more so i wouldnt go lying just to make urself look good. Its true. Guys should be able to control themselves but as i said before all they want is things that pleasure them, Can u let is go anyways? Look though history and see how women hav been treated. The only culture that has ever given equal treatment to us was the Celts.



    So wut if there's bad things about us? There's bad things about the males race too but of course u don t consider that or even look into it.
    If you would have thought earler before you made this dumb statement, you are hurting people's feelings. Just because we may talk bull on here about guys doesn't mean we can't use our freedom of speech the way we want to. You are interfering with every girl who reads and hates this comment's pursuit of happiness. Maybe you should keep your mouth shut next time.
    where did u got all these #z? what country?....





    stop BSing
    dude u best shut up! yea most girls r like that but u say that every girl on here does that! u r no better then those girls. u might as well be a girl your self. at least some of us have the common decency to keep crap like that to our selves. i think that about a lot of the girls here 2, but i don't say anything. I'm not a cry baby. and u need a reality check. not all women come on here. only about 40 percent of girls in America come on this site. and even less ask about guys. if u think that all women r like that then u've obviously never had a good relationship, or even a women friend. u don't see girls come on here preaching that guys r stupid. so u need to shut up and leave before your big mouth gets u in trouble! (i say that in metaphoric terms)
    First let me say that this well thought out, but did you ever stop to think that all this bf/gf crap is a crock as well! It's the reason people use for low standard and call it choice. The problem I have is the whores, both male and female that interrupt families and the usual cowards that allow them to do so. I actually agree with a lot of what you wrote, but, where is the responsible sense of leadership and commitment that men must show, not to mention commitment? Fairly as well, women have sorely denigrated into the crap that wandering walking hormones posing as men, have brought before them. We should never allow it, because in fact we make it possible for this double standard to exist, that many claim to be the victim of, I get it, totally! Women have by majority taken all responsibility away from men for their actions, and they know it!, further, insecurity is generally the reason. Thanks, it's been real.

    What do you do when one of your friends texts your other friends man?

    My friend was at work and our other friend came up and said ';you do not have to worry about taking care of your boyfriend...we were texting and he took care of himself'; She then proceeded to apologize for a half an hour(she rarely appologizes) Our friend who was doing the texting also felt the need to share the torrid details of her chat with my boyfriend(before telling the guys girlfriend). she used info about this guys fetishes( that his girl had shared) to get him going and offered to send pics of her doing things related to his fetish. My friend has to work with the dirty girls boyfriend and doesn't know how to handle it. neither one of us is talking to her.What do you do when one of your friends texts your other friends man?
    stay away from those freaks!! get new friends, get a new boy friend... they obviously dont have much self respect much less respect for you.

    JUST BROKE UP WITH MY BOYFRIEND! Did I do the right thing? Help :(?

    I have been in a relationship for 5 months with a 25yr old guy who works and lives about 1.5hours away from me. So it is similair to that of a long distance relationship, however on weekends he comes down here and stays at his parents which is 20mins away.



    Most of the time I try to go up once a week to visit him, I am a 20yr student without a job so I have alot of spare time and can easily do that. Recently however I have been more busy then usual and I started to feel a little left out of my boyfriends life. He is a very social person, and most weekends when he comes down he has alot of plans with friends. Sometimes he goes to things that I am not invited to, but in the same token I also attend friends birthday that he isn't invited to either. However, I have felt increasingly left out and unappreicated. I feel as though I am convienent for him and that he doesn't make me a pirority.



    I tried to be paitent and have my own life, but sometimes I felt as though I would have to twist his arm to make plans with me. I'd usually spend 2 of the 3 nights he is here, with him. It started to really hurt me about a month ago, when I started to see other peoples relationship and the scarifices they would make for their partners. I felt as thoguh my partner didn't compromise his social life to include me.



    I spent most of this weekend with my friends and goign out socialling. My boyfriend got quiet upset about this, cause he usually prefers me being at home with no plans then going out. I spent that time away from him to think and gain some perspective. I told him we needed to talk yesterday and he started to get concerned. I went over today and broke up with him because I felt we didn't spend enough time together.



    The thing is that I wanted to try make it work, but we had the same conversation before and I knew that I had to be strong and make a decision. However, it still hurts and I still want to be with me. I just know that it is not good enough anymore and it's hurting me.



    When I told him he was very devasted and just wanted to let me think about it. He said that he knew that spending time with me was always goign to be difficult because he lives in another city, and he can't see me as much as he would like to. At the same time I feel as though he should have tried harder. So, I had already decided in my mind that I needed to make a clean break and he recogonised that he couldn't convince me otherwise. Then he asked me if I had cheated on him on the weekend (which I said no, becasue I didn't and couldn't do that to him). Then he just said I was the best girlfriend he ever had and how much he would miss me and how it as the worst thing that could happen. He just hugged me while I cried, then I had to go before it got too difficult. He tried to kiss me and said he call me tommorrow, but I told him not to contact me again.



    He still wants to talk about it, but i really don't think he can change. I feel as though I want to be with him still, but I know that it would hurt me. I think I did the right thing, although I still have such strong feelings for him. I am not sure what to feel or think, I just feel shocked and broken. And I know I will question whether this was the right thing to do. What to you guys think?



    Love Izzy :'(JUST BROKE UP WITH MY BOYFRIEND! Did I do the right thing? Help :(?
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    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>JUST BROKE UP WITH MY BOYFRIEND! Did I do the right thing? Help :(?
    We can't really tell you whether you should have done that or not. It's your decision.

    You have done it already. Don't be nostalgic. Everytime you're upset concentrate on WHY you broke up with him. you did it for a reason
    u should give him time to explain let out his feelings,if u really miss him then go back to him
    you answered your own question sweetie ';I just know that it is not good enough anymore and it's hurting me.'; :(



    NEVER compromise yourself for less than what YOU feel YOU deserve!!! It's going to hurt for a while, maybe a long while, but it seems as tho he has no time for you. If he did, he would spend all the time he had coming up to your area to be with you. It hurts, I know, been there done that, but take this time away from him, grow, heal, and look at the relationship you had in a different light. Talk to a friend, a family member, anyone who can tell you what THEY see. You are looking at it right now with a broken heart and mind. Let yourself heal and find someone who WILL FIND the time for YOU!
    just talk about it and if you miss him and still like him go back out with him!



    help me with mine please i really need it :(

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    you did the right thing.

    it sounds like he was taking advantage of the relationship. you had to be free so it when he was free he could see you but when you had plans he gets annoyed. guys don't understand that there shouldnt be a double standard! no matter what it is.

    sometimes it takes something, like you breaking up with him, for them to understand.

    do you really like him?

    it seems like when you broke up with him he realised that hes going to miss you and was taking advantage of you being nice all the time.

    if you still like him you could give him another chance. but, wait a day atleast before talking to him (don't wait to long tho). and then tell him that he was using you and that there can't be a double standard between you. if he says he understands and will change give it another go-but if he dosnt change then he probly never will
    If the guy doesn't respect you leave but deep down you still love him so either you talk to clear things up or leave.
    First off you both should be doing things together when he goes down to visit, what is this that you aren't invited, or he wasn't invited BS?!? You are a couple and couples do things together, you don't need to be invited to know you should automatically be invited because you are the other persons boyfriend or girlfriend. Any type of long distance is going to be hard and take a lot of work. An hour and a half isn't that bad if you truly want to make things work, life does get busy and no one said it would be easy but it's possible. If he's going out with only his friends when he comes to visit and expects you to stay home, that isn't right. Why should you have to stay home if he isn't inviting you to hang out with him on the weekends. You are still young but you need someone that is going to want to be with you all the time, especially in this situation that he doesn't see you very often. If you were the best girlfriend he's ever had (as he puts it) then why wasn't he spending the time with you instead of going around hanging out with his friends and not even inviting you?



    I think you did the right thing. If you aren't happy and you have had this conversation with him before and nothing has changed then it's more than likely it will never change. You deserve someone better. I know it hurts now, and you wish you could be with him, but if he really cared for you or loved you, this wouldn't have even been an issue. He wants to still talk about it, because men/women want what they can't have. He didn't think you would actually break up with him, so now he doesn't know what to do. Move on, and find yourself a real man! You can do much better.



    xo,

    kristin nicole





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    hey again izzy!!...ive looked at your situation a few times when your q's pop up on my contact list and its always been hard with this guy hey......it seems u make so much of an effort and he dosnt and this early in a relationship should be rosy!!!!......u sound so sweet always and just have a break and see in a couple weeks how your feelings still are.....u will think a whole lo clearer havin a break from him coz it sounds like uve tried hard 2 make it work with him and he never seems 2 meet u halfway in alot of things!

    a break will make u realise what u want eather way....it hard bein away from someone at the best of times but its 4 the best honey!........keep socialises and be with good friends and it will make the hurt a lil less painful!!.......your from bris huh???....me sunshine coast!! xxxxxxxxxx
    Hi Izzy,



    I understand what you mean, but your playing with fire a little here, I am in the same relationship i sware- but you feeling disconnected from him is not his fault, breaking up with him because you feel he doesn make enough effort wont make him want to see you more.



    I know because I use to do this- my bf is 2 hrs away. I did that whole freak out think if he didnt see me and always asked what are you sacrificing, i sacrifice and i miss you and i want to live together and you make it work, but whats so wrong with him doing what works for HIM?



    You are two individuals- He is just living his life, seeing friends, he is ballancing him life out, as you should- us girls get wrapped up in a man and just want them at whatever cost- losing our own friends and life- so this is really good for you, you are the type of girl that gets a bf like you have- and thats it, nthing else matters you want to sleep eat and breath them, but men are NOT the same, he is NOT you, you -are two differet people, different likes and dislikes, don't break up with him to try get him to see and want you more, I can see you maybe want him to go ';oh **** she just broke up with me and chase you and tell you he sorry he will try harder, and then do so much to prove it, chase you and make you feel adored- but that would just pass- you need to get use to it just being the way it is, you willl get hurt doing that babe xx I know, ive been there-



    If you wanted to make it work babe, you talk about that quiet room, face to face, NO distractions, and know what your saying don't go on a tanget telling him how he feels, you DONT and CANT possiable know how he feels, you are NOT HIM. xx



    I understand you feel left out and unappreciated, but babe, thats your issue, its your insecurity, if it wasnt with this guy, it would be another xx sorry i hate saying it, dont EVER EVER cmpare to other peoples relationships and what they do for each other, you have NO IDEA what goes on being closed doors babe TRust me!! NO IDEA!!!



    The key s being TRE to yourself lie to him, lie to others, but YOU cant lie to yourself, if you got what you wanted and he did just want you when you wanted himt o want you but at his own accord right, when wpuld you both make friends? you need friends iny our life t make a relationship work,





    I dont know him, but im sure he appreciates you :) surely he does xx your special iny our own way,a s are all woman, and he shouldnt have to sacrifice his social life to prove it to you babe xx



    He is a man, they have physical differences to woman, hormones we dont even have- he does NOT feel or think the way you do, or any woman for that matter- If you feel unappreciated and really want to make it work, figre out how to make it work- ask him for what you want exxactly, knwoo what you want, when you dont know what he can do to make you feel appreciated- then how can he possiably know? he cant read your mind- and no he doesnt need to work it out you have the prob not him in that area xx



    regarding this sentence ';I feel as though I am convienent for him and that he doesn't make me a pirority. ';



    No girlfriend is convenient- your not no matter how much you think you are :P dont ever think on that, you have to understand that you are a pirority otherwise you wouldnt be HIS girlfrind, he would just sleep with youa nd not give you the honour of the gf label, what can he do to show you this?



    work out what you want, how you want it and simply tell him, in simple wods, whenyou start telling him too much at once their brain short circuts, be precise to the point simple, and figure it out, but as his girlfriend, dont break up with him to do this is you love him, you too need to appreciate he is a individual and doesnt like allt he same things as you and you need to accept him the way he is and make it work, you just gave up babe xx

    How do you deal with a guy friends girlfriend?

    So there was this guy that I liked he said that he broke up with his girl, we got drunk, and slept together. He told his girl and they weren't broken up. She came after me at a party but she got thrown out and just now she found me on facebook like myspace and is talking ****. Me and the guy are cool now but since that message talking **** about me and how i had to have my girls behind me, just set me off, what should i do because she is coming to visit the guy in two weeks and she said that she is going to mess us up?How do you deal with a guy friends girlfriend?
    Poison her :) simple!

    How to find out if a guy has a girlfriend?

    ok well theres this guy i like and like i dont know if he has a girlfriend, but i dont wanna ask him. i might get a friend to ask him. or, cuz one of his friends is in yearbook with me, and tomorrow we're taking pics of the turkey trot, i could ask his friend, or i could get one of my friends to ask his friend, lol yaa how should i? anything but asking him myself!How to find out if a guy has a girlfriend?
    Ask his friend I guess....but I would go ask him myself if I were you...it looks better.How to find out if a guy has a girlfriend?
    Are you friends with this guy? If you're not, you should start talking to him and get to know him because if he doesn't have a girlfriend, it'd be a good way to get things started between you two. As you get to know each other, you can ask him casually and it won't be a big deal.
    get one of your friends to find out....they can play the concerned friend like 'does your friend have a gf?' and if asked why, they could just say they were wondering in case you two started crushing on eachother or something

    but ya, dont ask yourself
    myspace.facebook.



    haha, i guess you could ask his friend, if you trust him. mention it casually.

    or get to know him well, and it will come out.



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    ask one of his friends



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    ';so what are your plans for the weekend, hanging with the gf???';



    not rocket science :p







    boys go here :)

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    b like...

    wat u gonna do for thanksgiving??

    hang out with ur gf?

    DUH!!!!

    jkjk

    good luck!
    dont be shy ask him urself!!! but then again guys are liers so ask one of his homies
    well he will avoid girls lol

    possibly not talk to them much %26gt;_%26gt;

    My best guy friends girlfriend?

    so in december my best guy friend got a girl friend. i wasnt particularly happy with it to begin with because shes one of those girls who dates every guy who likes her. but he seemed to like her so i stayed out of it. i have always known her, but we've never really been friends, but since theyve been together we became friends. i found out the other day though that someone heard her say that hes so annoying and that its really annoying how he always talks to me. i think thats a little ridiculous. hes been my best friend for years, what am i supposed to do, ignore him? its not like i flirt with him, try to hook up with him or run up and hug him when i see him. when she on the other hand, is always flirting and hugging her best guy friend. she also gave one of her friends attitude for sitting next to him in class, she usually sits next to him but she wasnt there. ive been so tempted to say something to him about what she said, but i dont really know if i wanna cause trouble.My best guy friends girlfriend?
    dont worry you wont even remember these people when you're all grown up. the amount of alcohol you'll consume in college will kill all those stupid memories.My best guy friends girlfriend?
    Well my best friend is exactly like this except she is a girl and her boyfriend talked about her behind her back. you totally should tell him. It might bother him at first it really hurt my best friend but she got over that dick and broke up with his sorry butt. I say you just tell him its the easiest way of ending this realationship that you do not like.
    Ignore it. When your best friend gets a boyfriend or girlfriend you kinda take a trip to the back burner. If your really his friend wait it out. They won't last long after she makes him cut all ties to his friends.

    How do I get a guy with a girlfriend to like me?

    Ah, you don't..How do I get a guy with a girlfriend to like me?
    thats the last thing you wanna do.

    dont get involved in their relationship.

    you wouldn't want it done to you.How do I get a guy with a girlfriend to like me?
    Don't be the other woman. That's tacky.
    U DONT!!!!
    This question has trouble written all over it. Just stay back and relax until he's single again. Then, and only then, flirt up a storm and hope for the best.
    Flirt but not too much so it makes you look like your desperate. Ask him and his friends to come hang out with you and your friends. Make sure you show him your intellectual side. Most Guys like that kinda stuff.

    good luck
    Not cool.

    Find a single guy, then we'll help you.
    are u serious? key word here --%26gt; girlfriend!

    would u want someone doing that to u?
    show him dem titties
    hope and pray
    well first off stop going after the guy who has a GIRLFRIEND and find a single male that's right for you because if he has a girlfriend then maybe he likes her!! so quit destroying relationships alright, alright!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    That's selfish. Don't try anything uless the two of them wanted it to happen. Would you like it if some girl tried to seduce your man?
    Sorry hunny but you don't because you'll just be the other woman and that ain't good. Because when you think he really likes you and you guys are getting somewhere remember he already has a number one and it ain't you. Listen to this song it reminds me of this situation.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nIOXLoihc鈥?/a>
    he's not going to like you , especially at valentines day when he knows he allready has a girlfriend and more importantly a date and maybe more .
    YOU shouldn't

    but if you really like him just become really close with him and

    get him to like you be nice and lik be one of he's best mates trust me this works and like always call him for help and **** just to get him to help ou and all that

    Clueless guy needs girlfriend advice! She sent me this message on facebook?

    We live together yet she sent me this message on facebook. What do I make of this? Is she giving me an ultimatum?





    You better be serious about those vows you just took. I've been having a serious battle with myself whether or not I should leave you. It's not a good feeling, but either is being hurt because of the stupid things you do and having a boyfriend I completely can't trust. You never listen to me when I talk and when I do you don't take me seriously so hopefully you will read this and get it through your head. It's your call and it depends on how much you value your family. Unless I change my mind before you get a chance to screw up again. You`re like a baby-you can't even be trusted by yourself for a few hours. It seems like you do things to make me mad before you get to make up for the first thing you did. You're never sorry for anything you do to ever hurt my feelings. It seems the only emotion you hold is anger. We should be moving forward instead of crumbling. I shed tears over this and you just don't care....and if you do I suggest that you show it and apologize for being a dumbass. And sincerely, not with a stupid smirk on your face because then I know your just doing it to make yourself seem sorry when you really just don't care and want to get it over with so i'll be happy.Clueless guy needs girlfriend advice! She sent me this message on facebook?
    Definitely an ultimatum. If you don't stop, you're going to end up alone.



    I would give my bf the same ultimatum if he was doing that. Man I'm glad I have him! haha



    Good luck and ditch the damn porn! If you like it so much, make a bunch of videos of yourselves and watch that.Clueless guy needs girlfriend advice! She sent me this message on facebook?
    I do believe she is giving you an ultimatum. By the sound of it if you really like her and want to keep your family together you should do whatever it takes. I obviously do not know your situation but I suggest you apologize and patch things up. (though I do think it is dumb she wont let you look at porn, it is a part of life). good luck though, wish I could help more.
    I'd say you better do whatever she wants you to do, no matter how messed up it is.



    This is because it sounds like you care, but also that you have two kids and are therefore tied to her for life no matter how your relationship goes. I'd do whatever it takes to fix it dude, cause its gonna hurt you more in the future then youll ever get out of looking at fake boobs jiggle.



    Although it does seem a little extreme to react this way over porno...

    Valentine's day question from a guy... My girlfriend and I agreed not to get anything for each other for......

    gifts for Valentine's day.



    When I got home from work she had a couple cards, and a bag full of small but thoughtful presents waiting for me.



    I however did not have a single thing for her, and now feel bad.



    Although we did agree not to get anything for each other, she still went out and got some stuff for me.



    Do you think I should try to get her some presents now, or does that seem worse than not getting her anything based on our earlier agreement.



    She did not seem upset about me not getting her anything, but I think women can sometimes be sneaky ninjas with how they really feel.



    As we all know, ';fine'; does not always mean ';fine';.



    Please help if you have any suggestions.Valentine's day question from a guy... My girlfriend and I agreed not to get anything for each other for......
    I would suggest doing something nice for her today, rather than buying something for her.Valentine's day question from a guy... My girlfriend and I agreed not to get anything for each other for......
    i wouldn't get her a thing as that was previously agreed upon. she shouldn't expect a thing and she has no right to be upset because you two had made an agreement and she should have stuck by that as you have.



    Mom of B %26amp; D
    i wouldn't get her anything this time, but know if she says that again, she is lying...

    buy her something next time :)
    Now she's expecting it so wait a couple of weeks and suprise her. Let her think that you've forgotten all about it. Guys can be sneaky ninjas too.
    i would have done the same as her and been fine with it if it was pre agreed, why not plan a special surprise for the weekend, its completely seperate but thoughtful
    Maybe take her out for a nice dinner this weekend.
    If you have an anniversary of when you first met, get her loads of pressies and cards then.



    Otherwise you could leave her a small gift everyday for 14 days to symbolise the 14th day as being Valentines day.
    It goes back to the fact that women are from Venus and men are from Mars. Being from Mars, men take every thing verbatum and do not ususally hear what is not being said. I would wait a few days and then do something nice for her. Maybe keep a little something always tucked away for just such an emergency. Good luck.
    she suckered you big time. now you gots ta go buy a diamond.



    or at least dinner in fancy restaurant. no taco loco don't count. you can take me there for givin you this legal advice though.
    this is kinda like mine and my bf's story. he feft bad because i bought him some nice things and he just made me 2 burned CD's. that was sweet of him because he knows i love music. just get her a giant teddy bear and a box of chocolate
    Take her out for supper and have roses delivered at the tables for her.
    Wait a few days and surprise her with something nice, whether it be bought or an extra special date or whatever. Don't bring up Valentine's Day - let it be just because.



    And, now you know that ';don't buy me anything'; really means ';Do something small and nice for me - at least a card.';
    No... you need to lay low on it for a week or two... then surprise her with a nice romantic evening... for 'no reason'.



    Don't forget:

    Flowers

    Dinner

    Massage

    Music



    Remember: It's the details that count. Be creative.... in another two or three weeks.



    You'll be 'fine'.
    I would stick with the ';Ninja'; feeling and bring home some flowers or something ';just because';
    Man you dummie never fall for that when they say i dont want anything that means you better get them something or you will pay for for ever.

    How do I make guy friends?

    im a guy, but i was raised around girls. therefore, i make friends with girls easier than guys. my girlfriend has started getting jealous and we start arguing a lot and i see that it hurts her and i want to change, but i dont kno how. if anyone has any tips please help.



    i dont really have much in common with guys..im not really into sports or nething like that.How do I make guy friends?
    You really shouldn't have to change your friends just for your gf. Just tell her you don't like them, you like her, and she should trust you.How do I make guy friends?
    Your in trouble with the ';im not really into sports'; part
    right on bro! I hate sports! :D you just gotta find guy friends that aren't into sports either.

    How to get a girlfriend this year?

    I'm gonna be a sophomore this year and freshman year none of the guys got girlfriends unless they were really popular because most of the good looking girls went out with sophomores and the really really good looking girls went out with Juniors of the freshman class. Now that I'm a sophomore how can I get a nice pretty girlfriend who is either a freshman or sophomore that will like me? What should I say/do?How to get a girlfriend this year?
    Talk to as many girls as you can. SMALL TALK. If you can think of anything small to say just to break the ice then you already got 1 foot in the door, after that it's all about making them laugh and feel comfortable. Don't be scared girls hate guys who aren't confident. Don't be too cocky most girls don't like that either. Don't act too affectionate or a girl is going to think your some hallmark card in a human body. But don't act like a complete douche because that doesn't work either(with the exception of girls with low self esteems, only them and God knows why they chose the @holes, but they do). Make sure your shoes and fingernails and everything else is clean and smells good, girls tend to look at how a guy treats his self and think if your not taking care of yourself then you DEFINITELY won't take care of them. MOST IMPORTANTLY.... be yourself man. In the end of it all everyone ends up being their self once they get comfortable around someone and if you end up changing from how you were acting at first they will just look at you like some big liar and dump you anyways. Good luck and have fun!!! ;)How to get a girlfriend this year?
    ugly/plain girls need love too.
    find one, talk to herr. ask her owt tht simple.
    don't go out loooking for someone, but if you find someone who you can't take your eyes off or that you just have a connection with then grab it and run with it.

    seriously don't go looking for a girl cos it seems desperate :S
    well you could start by complimenting her..

    girls love getting compliments and just

    try to make casual conversation with her..

    and after yall are friends for a little while

    ask her to come to a football game or

    something with you... or a dance if there

    is one.
    Go up to the ***** and tell her you are gonna take her on a date simple as that brah.
    Words from my sensai:



    ';Looks can decieve you. Look for what truely is within.';



    I believe this applies.



    Please answer this:

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    start talking to her, and get to know eachother and just be yourself around her don't try to be someone your not. Girl's don't like that.
    it seems to me that all you care about is dating someone, and that you dont really care who they are, just as long as you can say you have a girlfriend. just be yourself and eventually you will find someone who likes you for you. dont rush into a relationship with someone you really dont like just because you feel you have to have a girlfriend.
    If you want her to like you....stick with being YOU. Do the things you enjoy and you will find someone with common interests. If you do things to try and impress she'll most likely be disappointed when you no longer feel the need to keep up a charade.



    and



    Smiling and/or saying hello works so much better than people think and so many have forgotten how.
    don't worry about relationships right now... let them come naturally... it will happen on its own, no need to push it. if you feel like there is difficulty attracting a girl, ask some one you know will e honest and doesn't wear floods and a xxs t-shirt for some fashion advice. My honey was a total geek.... then he turned into a total hottie, all the girls want him now!!! ahhhhh!!!
    be friendly. be friends. flirt. touch (not tht kind of touch perv lol). if she response in a good way ask her out :]

    bingo! next thing u noe u have a girlfriend! yay
    edit.
    Just be yourself. Try to hang out with a variety of people and get to know them. Make yourself available and just have fun. People like people who happy and confident.With all those new people coming in I'm sure you'll get a girl.....after all you ARE a sophomore this year ;)
    Find someone you are interested in that catches your eye, personality wise or physically then get to know them by saying hi and trying to get in contact with them (texting,myspace,yahoo etc.) then see if they're interested back and there you go



    be kind, nice caring, funny, not disrespectful or sexual freaky, be yourself
    DATE ME :/ i've never had a boifrand %26lt;/3

    lucky for you i'm single ;) ;) ;)
    First of all be yourself. I cant tell you how many guys that have made fools of themselves around me and my friends. Be confident and nice. I personally think that guys who cuss a lot will never respect me sooo try not to cuss, its a total turnoff. NO girl is really ugly soo just know what type of personality you like and go for it, you don't want to be stuck with some beautiful but moody girlfriend. Hope this helped. Good luck.
    Don't try to get a pretty girl just to be cool and be like the other guys. Grade, looks and popularity don't matter in the long run. You should find someone that makes you feel special. No girl should need to live up to your superficial standards to date u...just saying.
    Be yourself - hopefully you're fairly kind and considerate. Be friendly to as many people as possible. Try not to look too sloppy. Join a school activity. Comb your hair occasionally. Learn to keep a confidence. Take a bath or shower regularly. Keep a sense of humor. Brush your teeth. Stay out of trouble. Wear a deodorant and a little cologne. And learn to look a girl in the eye.
    loftus

    How to get the guy with a girlfriend?

    is there ANY secrets to doing this?

    or should i just give up?How to get the guy with a girlfriend?
    Just tell him you want him.How to get the guy with a girlfriend?
    Give up. Unless he is already thinking of dumping them
    you should give up, imagine if you were that girl!
    Well you should never steal someone's boyfriend. That's harsh. But if you must, just observe first. To see if he's really into his girlfriend, or if he's willing to play the field every now and then. If he looks open to anyone, then slowly start talking and hanging around with him. Make yourself seem fun and energetic. Try to look more presentable too though. Don't put yourself out there too much or he's going to think something else. Try to out-do everything she does. You'll definetly grab his attention. Good luck!
    Give up, he has a girlfriend! Don't be a whore.
    give up trust me they wont ever dump there gf for you
    1: If you guys already know each other then thats good just make sure him and his girl arent too deep involved.



    2: Get his attention (dress really cute and fashionable) be very open as far as being able to have a good convo



    3: If a problem occurs def be a shoulder to lean on



    4: Be his friend go hangout



    5: seem very easy going and interested in him



    6: Make sure he actually likes you becuz if he doesnt girl leave it alone (you can figure this out by the way he looks at you or if he's touchy feely)



    Good Luck!!
    if their happy leave them alone



    you'll find someone else



    but if you really think you like them THAT much

    get a friend to introduce you

    who has connections...

    but dont sabotage their relationship

    if they break up

    then you have a chance

    goodluck : )

    I Know It's A Stupid Question...Guy With Girlfriend?

    This guy started talking to me on myspace. And I know him and everything cuz he graduated last year when I was a sophomore. Now he has a girlfriend that goes to school with me, same grade and everything. And he's been going out with her for a while. I don't know her personally so I can't say anything. But he started talking to me, then he asked for my number and I gave it to him. he started texting me then and then started flirting with me. And I didn't know how to respond so I just kinda, ';eh thanks.'; But then he told me that he didn't love his girlfriend anymore and that she was getting on his nerves with things she did. And he said he has feelings for me and wants to take it farther. And I told him I feel bad for flirting with him when he has a girlfriend, and I said, ';Why don't you just break up with her instead of 'cheat'?'; And he informed me he couldn't break up with anyone, it would make him feel bad. I know that's a bunch of bull but I like it when it flirts. It makes me feel loved. But I know for a fact his girlfriend would be devastated to know what was going on. I don't know what to do. And I know that if he could do this to her, then if we got together he could do it to me too.

    What do I tell him? Whenever I say something about his girlfriend he gets annoyed with the subject and changes it. And he's kinda clingy. I was talking to him and went to bed at 3 or 4 in the morning, then woke up at 10 and he had sent me 4 text messages in that time frame, all of them, Wow I guess you don't want to talk to me., and I knew it you hated me.I Know It's A Stupid Question...Guy With Girlfriend?
    Sounds like there are a lot of red flags here. Number one, you're right, he has a gf and he's texting and talking to you all the time. He would do it to you too. And if he's too spineless to break up with his gf because it would, ';make him feel bad'; then down the road of a could be relationship lies more problems. Also the incessant texting at 3 and 4 in the morning is just creepy. It's nice to flirt and be flirted with, but i'd say, back out now.
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