How can I convence my girlfriend not to go to prom with another guy?

I got suspended at the bigining of the year and now that I have a girlfriend that's a junior I would be able to go but I got suspended. So she wants to go with another guy whom I think has a crush on her. I don't feel I can trust her enough and this worries me alot. How can I convence her to go with her ';girlfriends'; instead of another guy? I'm worried that things might get out of hand.How can I convence my girlfriend not to go to prom with another guy?
That's not fair to you..



Especially to go with someone who has a crush on her? I say dump her and beat the guy up, give yourself a legit reason for being suspended..haha



No, but foreal...that isn't fair.



You should go out with a girl who likes you in the after party, and show your girlfriend whats up and to not play you like that. Show her your man dawgHow can I convence my girlfriend not to go to prom with another guy?
Depends...what did you get suspended for?
If she was a girlfriend worth hanging onto she wouldnt put you in this position, she'd just automatically go with her girlfriends, id say ditch her.
Well to be honest... She clearly can't be trusted if she's going to a prom with someone who isn't even her boyfriend.



Plus, if you can't trust her then you're not in a good relationship.

Relationships require trust.
You have got to trust her, showing her you dont trust her is just going to push her futher away, possibly towards this other guy!

Tell her she can go with whoever she likes, and wish her a good time, and just TRUST her!

If anything does happen and you find out you cant trust her, she obviously wasnt worth it to start with!

xXx
i have the same kinda problem my gf went with another guy and shes never done the same stuff we used to do like just lie on the ground and talk and if i try that she gets really or cured.



my best advice

give her a kiss before she goes or walk/drive with her to the prom and tell her you love her.

that all i can say man

good luck
tell her u will leave her if she goes with anouther guy.
this is like saying its a test

let her go

if she tells you about a fantastic guy

and the stuff she did, with another guy

its automatically tells you she was never worth it from the very start
She shouldn't be punished and miss her prom just because you got your butt in trouble. Plus, if you don't trust her, you need to break things off...trust is the cornerstone for ANY relationship.
If you don't trust her then why are you with her? If she wants to go to a prom with another guy, then why is she your girlfriend? If you can't stay out of trouble to make sure you are her date for these important memories proms are made of.......then you will just have to make sure they have condoms available. She aint going with her girlfriends cuz she don't have to!!
if you do, she will think you dont trust you and dump you just say 'promise you'll always like/love me?' or 'please go with your friends instead!' it might work but dont blame me if ya get dumped..............
tell her you are not comfortable with that guy. pretty lame position you are in. it is often the guy with the crush that acts nice. either way dont let the drama get to you.
even though you got suspended does not give her the right to go with another guy. to me i call that cheating. i feel that you must stand by your man or women no matter what he or she did. it seems to me that she does not love you as much as you love her. i would give her a choice she can go with him and you leave her. or not go and you stay with her. i hope everything works out
this might sound silly but this stuff works, change the program that you used on her. like, if you guys used to talk on the phone for half an hour, this time make it 10 minutes. pretend to be busy, don't spend lot of time on your girlfriend, let her know that you have alot of things to do.



another thing you can do is to suggest competition. let her suspect that you're going out with another girl, even if you really not. It makes you more attractive to her and she knows she will have to work hard to get you again. Have names and numbers of other girls popping out of your wallet (when paying for yourself of course, not her:) or have them laying around in your house/apartment/car, don't be desperate for her. don't be available at all times when she ask you out, be slightly unpredictable in your actions.



PUT A PRICE ON YOURSELF:

well, if she really going out another dude to a prom, SHOW YOUR ANGER. Guys who never get mad, who never show that they will stand up for themselves and make a woman feel a bit of unpleasantness are, in effect, giving themselves away for free! Let your girlfriend know that if she break your rules, cross you, or show any lack of respect, SHE IS GOING TO PAY A PRICE!

Be willing to withdraw your time and attention and be unavailable.



A. Now and again, cancel dates.

B. Don't always return her phone calls promptly

C. On occasion, and especially in the beginning, GET OFF THE PHONE FIRST!! Don't have unlimited time or willingness to talk!



and the last thing you can do is to SHOW A WILLINGNESS TO WALK AWAY. Understand that when you show this willingness to walk away, in any area of your life, it conveys the message that you are the prize to be pursued, that you are the person of value, and they had better take advantage of the opportunity. This is an attitude that will move you forward in any area that's challenging you. By way of contrast, if you show a non-stop, forever and ever devotion to her, and put up with her crap and ambivalence, then where is that tension of knowing she could lose you? Answer: nowhere! And that's why you get nowhere when you put up with this kind of stuff! If you've seen an initially hot relationship grow ice-cold, this is one big reason.



I hope this help. PM me if you want.
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you say you think that that boy loves her more than you......even though i cant go cant you think of me and hang with your friends