How to get older German guy with girlfriend?

I am 17 and an american and i am falling for this german guy. the problem is he is 24 and has a girlfriend. i have dated older guys before so i know how they act and what they ';want';, but either way he is different. We ended up making out on his bed today but after 10 minutes or so he stopped and said the two issues- age concerns and he doesn't want to cheat. his girlfriend is many miles away in germany and i feel i am mature enough to handle this relationship. can someone please help me think of a way to convince him otherwise? i really really like him and he even said his girlfriend wasn't the one! please help!!How to get older German guy with girlfriend?
Ummm, think about it. You're asking how to get a guy to leave his gf. He he leaves under any advice that anyone gives you, trust me, he will do it to you. Leave him alone. He is probably using you. If he liked you, the girlfriend would be long gone. And making out IS CHEATING. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Save yourself the future heartbreak and karma, because it will come back to you. I promise.How to get older German guy with girlfriend?
How dare you come in between him and his girlfriend. I admit what he did was wrong when he made out with you. Grow up. The fact that he said he didnt want to cheat shows what he has with his girlfriend is special and worth something. Find someone who is available. You will destroy what they have. Don't be greedy. Even though he said she wasnt the one, just leave it. He still said no to you and he still has the relationship with her. Dont do anything until they break up. What goes around comes around.
back off. he has a girl friend. honestly thats really low and cheap of you. even though you like him you have to wait till he breaks up with his GF..if he does that..... you cant convince him,hes the one with the feelings for her. that would be wrong. think about her feelings. no offense but dont be a whore.!

back off for a while and just wait/

let him know your interested maybe but then stay away dont be a home wrecker.
oh wow american people nowadays
You may think you are mature enough for this but once a person knows the other is taken and still wants to per sue a person, they are definitely not mature. A real mature woman will back off and if he and his gf break up it will have been his own doing and not helped by you.



Say he does leave his gf for you. What is stopping him from cheating on you? What would you do if you and him had relationship issues and another woman came along and said she was better? That wouldn't make you feel very good would it? Try looking at the other side of things. Until you learn that a taken man is untouchable then you still have some growing up to do no matter what age you are.



I know its not the advice you were looking for but coming from a woman who had this done to her, its the best i can give you. I hope it helps you think about things more on this issue.