Thursday, October 28, 2010

UGH! i hate my best guy friends girlfriend!!?

she constantly lies just to try to be popular. she hangs out with this girl that i hate soo much and she hates me. and i think she is super jelous of how me and him are awesome friends. on myspace hes my number two and so am i on his..but he keeps getting deleted from my friends..he still has his myspace i just keep gettin deleted from his friends..i know its not him thats doing it. and dont tell me other wise cause i know him better than you..neways i talked to him and asked if his girlfriend had his password and stuff to get on his myspace and he said yea..i have his email but i cant remeber his password because he used to let me go on his and edit his page and stuff cause he has a slow computer. i just wannna see if shes been talking about me to him..



but its not that im jelous cause hes had plenty other girlfriends (we dated last year but it didnt work) but i was never jelous of the other girls..i accually liked it cause i was happy for himUGH! i hate my best guy friends girlfriend!!?
I know exactly what your talkin about. I had alot of guy friends growing up. The one thing i can promise you is this, If you make a big deal about the myspace thing he will take her side and you may lose your friend for good. If she is worth ruining your friendship then go ahead. Other than that, the only thing to do is ride it out as a friend. The way she sounds she won't be around long. If your friendship is strong enough it will weather this storm and many more to come.



Each one of these little girlfriends he goes through will only make your friendship stronger. You never know you may end up dating again.UGH! i hate my best guy friends girlfriend!!?
She's incredibly insecure and feels threatened by you. Wouldn't you in her position? Trying to hack his account is a huge invasion of privacy and I pray to god you respect him enough.

She is his girlfriend, you are his FRIEND. Are you jealous? The only way around this is to accept them both and Get Over It.
I think it's his girlfriend that is jealous of your friendship. She sees you as a threat.

If you are best friends and he still thinks of you as a best friend, he needs to let his girlfriend know that you are in his life.



I don't know how much you guys hang around together, but you guys need to do stuff without her.



Your friend needs to see what type of person she really is and then decide whether he wants to be with her or not.



Chances are that this relationship won't last and you'll have your best friend again.
Put yourself in her situation- if you were dating a guy that you may get serious with who would you put first? I will admit she does seem a little over-the-top jealous!! Honestly though, if you guys are only friends, someday you both will probably wind up married to someone else, maybe even with a family of your own. In that instance, you will be putting your husband and wife first and your friendship will take a back burner. Who knows, maybe this girl will be that woman! If thats the case, do you really want to interfere that much when you may wind up in a similar boat yourself someday? Hopefully whoever you date isn't that jealous, but I'm telling you now, your future man will definitely want to be put first and if he sees your friend as a threat or even an equal he won't be likin' that too much!

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