Guys how would you get your ex gf back?

What are some signs that a guy wants to get back with his ex girlfriend?



GUYS: what are things you would do when trying to get her back?



I don't want to hear the generic: ex's are an ex for a reason... type of answers.Guys how would you get your ex gf back?
I would say that you first need to reevaluate the relationship you and this gf had and try to realize what went wrong, how it went wrong, who did what, what people could have done, and if the problems could have been resolved in a better way.



Then if you still feel this girl is for you:

Leave her alone for a little while to let her breathe and reevaluate the relationship herself (she'll do this without you telling her to reevaluate the relationship, so don't tell her to do so), next call just to say hi and nothing more with out bringing up any bad times or any disagreements (if she brings up these things, then quickly say you feel bad that she feels this way and then quickly end the call on a good note.

example

';I'm sorry that you feel that way, I really don't want to discuss this right now, I just wanted to say hi and see how your work/ school/ dancing lessons/ etc are going. That's great I know how much you really enjoy/ worry about/ care for/ etc. It's been great talking to you have a great day. Bye.';



It may take some time, but if you really want the girl and want things to work out, you have to plan your actions in a way that remind her of the good times, how much she enjoyed your company, and the possibility of being able to work through the issues that lead to your break up and any other issues that come a long.



ps, if you think she did the wrong things, then learn how to forgive her and never bring these things up. If she brings them up, state how it made you feel without trying to make her feel bad and end on a positive note. No one wants to be with someone that makes them feel bad, even if that person did the first hurtful thing.



Good-luck!



Remember she has to want this too or it will just be a waste of time; i.e. don't push her into getting back with you, you should want her to want to come back not be talked into coming back.Guys how would you get your ex gf back?
well guess what, she's my ex for a reason. when you break up with somebody 8 outta 10 times its because it wouldn't couldn't shouldn't work.



simple as that
i am a girl a way you can get her back is tell her you miss her and that without her you will be nothing and that you want her more than ever