Friday, November 19, 2010

Please help! I don't know what to do about this guy?!?

Hey everyone. So, theres this guy. His girlfriend of over a year broke up with him about 2 1/2 months ago. He has been hanging out with me since. We've made out, fooled around. But he is NEVER pushy. He openly told me he liked me. He even wants to get to know my family. He has become friends with my older sister and texts her to find out how I feel about him. (he knows i like him as well) The problem is, he says hes not ready for a relationship. When I ask him if I should move on (because I dont feel like waiting around for him to figure out his ****) he says ';I don't know'; PLEASE HELP. What does that mean?Please help! I don't know what to do about this guy?!?
Well, Clearly He is having guild Problems in World of Warcraft, If i were you i'd Research into World of Warcraft, and find out what he likes about it, and Dress up as a Night Elf in real life then go dance for him at night, If this doesnt solve it, Reroll horde :SPlease help! I don't know what to do about this guy?!?
okayy yes he likes you but if he keeps saying he's not ready for a relationship then maybe he just wants the friends with benefits relationship which is not cool. yes, he's trying super hard to be with you but if he doesn't want to be with you within the next month, move on. tell him you cant wait any longer and you want a relationship or nothing at all.
May b he needs time to make ne commitment

he broke up wid his ex- girlfrnd just 2 n half months ago... give him time... til then u b lik gud frnds... u lik him n he liks u...n with tim he wil propose u .... this is what i think..
He might be trying to hold onto you until he IS ready, and that's unfair to you. Ask him directly if he likes you, if he's interested in you. if he says yes, then ask him why he isn't interested in a relationship with you.
WTH!!! if he likes yuh than he better make his mind upp cuz yuh are not gonna wait around for a loserish guy! okay and tell him that be like if yuh like me make yur move cuz i cant be waiting around for you! imma move on!

if he says idk be like fine kaay neither do i

imma move on!
this is strange, hes obviously into you if he asks your sister, but then he says he doesn't want a relationship. if hes an open type of guy he would be honest %26amp; say if he did want a relationship, unfortunately i think it could sort of be a re-bound thing after his last girlfriend broke up with him- if he wants to fool around but doesn't want anything serious.



if your ok with just fooling about %26amp; having nothing serious, i think you shouldn't worry about the situation, but if you want a relationship i think you should try your best to move on, start liking someone else %26amp; then he'll either realize what hes missing %26amp; jump in, or not.



hope this helps.
Sounds like you're a rebound that he's falling for.

He likes you, but he still has feelings for his ex, %26amp; doesn't want to hurt you by leading you on, especially if his ex decides she wants to go back out with him.

Try moving on, you can always get back with him later.
Guys get scared by being in relationships, it puts too much pressure on them to be around you and your friends and all that stuff. But, if you like him you should just keep doing what you are doing. Sounds fun to me...
just give him time really soon he'll probably be ready and ask you...you should just keep being his friend and when he's ready he's ready but be patient and watch it wont take long =)

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