I'm sleeping with a guy with a girlfriend, what do i do?

i have had a crush on this guy forever, and he finally made a move on me a few weeks ago. we've been sleeping with each other ever since, but the only problem is he has a girlfriend! how can i make him dump her? i'm not looking for anyone to tell me to stop seeing him, that would be the obvious response here. i'm just looking for someone who has been in the situation to tell me how they got the guy to dump the girlfriend.I'm sleeping with a guy with a girlfriend, what do i do?
Oh my god. you are a naughty person. First, find out all his desires and what she is not doing. Then, do her job for a while and stop. He will miss the attention and want you more. Lastly give him an option. Tell him he can settle for good or go with the best. The key to this is to give hime something to miss and then take it away completely. That way you practically make the decision for him.I'm sleeping with a guy with a girlfriend, what do i do?
go for a three way
stop doin it til he isnt with someone else. he is cheatin and u r just a booty call to him, its not right, its not fair n how would u like it if it was u? doesnt feel good. not to mention how can u respect him or urself ?
What if you were the girlfriend? You wouldn't want to be dumped. Why are you sleeping with a guy with a girlfriend anyway? That can be considered sleezy, but if you want to keep seeing him, then tell him to choose between you and his girlfriend. That would be rude though, since you are the intruder.
off with her head! (wacko)
send him a whole bunch of messages and phone calls so his girl will see it OR i would suggest you get one of your guy friends to be all over her and take pictures of them too and get the pics and show your guy and he'll dump her
Get her to dump him lol
He is sleeping with you? and her (of course)? AND he hasn't dumped her yet? Ummmm need I say more? You shouldn't even WANT to be with a guy you have to FORCE to be with you. That is what you would be doing. If he hasn't dumped her yet for you on his own.....think about it!





Good luck!
he should have dumped her before he started sleeping with


you, he's not going to dump her now, he has his cake and


is eating it too..
Very simple , find another guy and start sleeping with him also. Then guy number one will show you how to get rid of the other woman.....as he dumps you. Get a life and a real relationship.
If you get the answer to this let me know. He is going to get what he can get from you as long as he can. Guess what you already knew he had someone and it was OK then and he's thinking it's still OK. After all you did know from the very beginning
You are just a piece of *** to him. He has no real feelings for you...
Ultimatum! If he truly wanted you as a girlfriend he'd have dumped the other already. Besides won't he eventually just cheat on you in the long run. Sorry I know it's not the response you want, but he's using you for his own satisfaction. Be strong, stand up for yourself and give the guy an ultimatum...if he doesn't dump her then it's obvious you need his attention not affection.
Once a cheater always a cheater. Odds are he will cheat on you with someone new, if he leaves his current girlfriend for you.
He won't dump his girlfriend, he will dump you. Sorry and good luck.
There is no way to get a person to break up with their partner. He would have already broken up with her if that's what he wanted.





If he can cheat on his current girlfriend then he will cheat on you. Simple fact...he is using you. You need to get out of this situation. You need a guy who respects commitment, has morals and values.
i guess try to please him in all ways you could think of (you know stand on your head and spit jelly beans and stuff) and then tell him you are going to date other men and then he will respond and tell you no and that is when you tell him to break up with his girlfriend and be with only you and you will be with only him.


at least that is what i did and it worked for me
Give him and ultimatum, you or her. If he picks her get ready for a big heart ach.(I've been there) If he picks your get ready for some nasty looks from people.(i was the girl friend in this case) Best of Luck!!
If he cheats with you he will cheat on you.





Arn't you worthy of a guy who isn't a cheater?
There's no magic pill for that but I can tell you that if you know what you're doing and you're confident, you'll come on top. good luck
Make you as low as he is,why would you want to hurt someone,that's a silly question Why,just to get laid,to many guys out ther that don't have a girl try one of them and not hurt another girl,have some respect for others feelings.
what did you think before you got in bed?!?!


1. I'm sorry that you are sleeping with a guy who already has a girlfriend because he obviously doesn't care about either you or her. If he can do this type of thing to his current girlfriend, he could have a great chance of doing the same thing to you when you become his girlfriend when he dumps her. so you need to be careful.


Personally, if he is really into you, he would've dumped his girlfriend by now - WITHOUT YOU THINKING UP OF WAYS TO ';GET THE GUY TO DUMP HIS GIRLFRIEND'; and he will dump her on his own.
Wow that is pathetic of you to actually want to intentionally hurt someone, which is what you will be doing if you continue to want him to dump his girlfriend. Why would he dump his girlfriend for you?? - you are the sleezy one he has on the side...nothing special. Get your own boyfriend.
I think that you should stop seeing this guy, because if he cheated on his girl then how do u know that he won't cheat on you? If he really liked you then he would dump his girl and be with you.
you should dump him on less he is cute or you should say '' IF YOU WANT ME THAN DUMP HER!''
You can ask him and see what he says. If he says he won't. you can continue as you are. You can also do the drama thing and tell her about you, but he might then dump you.





He is his own person and if he is happy seeing both of you, why should he stop? You were content to be with him even though he is with someone else, why aren't you happy now?





You can go to a fortune teller and pay her money to do a break-up spell.
Get caught. She'll probably dump him and you can have him. I hate to sound like a homewrecker but you must have something that she doesn't or he wouldn't be cheating on her.
u r a complete ***** like me!!!!after a very steamy sex with a guy he is so sensitive taht he feels the real connection between the two of you. talk to him about the matter if he refuses to break up with his current gf. then black mail him... YOUR GIRL WILL KNOW ALL ABOUT THIS..this worked for me. we've been on for two years now.after he dumped her I showed him how much better i am than the other one
he is cheating on her and will cheat on you too, so seperate before you become too involved.
well you knew he had a girlfriend so if you try to make him dump her he will probably dump you instead.on the other hand if you get him to dump her,you will then become the ';girlfriend'; and some other girl hes sleeping with will try to get him to dump you!get my drift?
the truth:it doesn't happen.you better off stoping the sex until he drops the gf otherwise you will always fill in the gap when he can't get any from his gf or they are having problems .He knows how you feel bout him will use that to his advantage.In my case I had to eventually break up with him. up to now He will still call and say he loves me but is still involved with the gf.The reason why he can't break up with her?He doesn't want to hurt her feelings and he loves both of us ';:it is a complicated situation';.My reasoning.............am too good to settle for second best or less.Untill you are the gf then you are still not the gf.she still holds the title you are just the gal he stringing along if incase it does not work out with her.Am sorry but STOP SEEING HIM.If he loves you enough and thinks that both of you have sthing great he will/should have leave/left her.already.But the again the choice is yours.