I have a crush on a guy with a girlfriend?

I like a friend of mine.

I'm also kinda friends with his girlfriend.

Obviously, I don't want to hurt their relationship but she recently stopped going to our college and lives 300mi away.

Since that happened, he's spent a lot more time over at my place, which is difficult for me because I feel like there's a lot of sexual tension.



Should I tell him how I feel just to get it out there?

Should I tell him to stop hanging around so much?



I really don't want to cause any problems with their relationship and maybe he just spends a lot of time here with me because he's a friend, but I feel like there's at least a possibility he's attracted to me too...I have a crush on a guy with a girlfriend?
Long distance relationships are tough and don't last 99% of the time. Reason number one; the distance!



There's no controlling this once the ball gets rolling, and it sounds like you both have something for each other otherwise he wouldn't be hanging around.Talk to him about your feelings, and if a possible relationship is discussed, then at least be descent enough to have him break up with her first.



The down side is you will probably piss that girl out when she finds out, and expect her to compete for his affection when she gets back in town.



If you can handle all that, then go for it. If not tell him to stop coming around.I have a crush on a guy with a girlfriend?
Tell him, see what he says.
Ask for threesome. Everyone will be happy.
dustt10 is right you should
i'd tell him cause what if he's the one and your jus shovin him away?? your friendship doesn't seem that strong with his gf.. so i'd just tell him.. he's pro feelin it too.
if you don't want to damage the relationship, then you're going to have to stop seeing him so much.

if you're willing to hurt the relationship, by all means, pour your heart out.



if you want to hurt the relationship, tell him how you feel.

if you want to preserve it, stop hanging around.
Have a 3way so no one is left out.
First you must think to yourself. Can you see yourself married to this person? Sometimes female male relationships have sexual tension, however, If you are sure that you want to pursuit a long-lasting relationship with him. You should tell him. But, If you just feel a growing attachment, it could be based solely on the fact that he is around more and you have bonded more to him which will allow you to have such feelings for him. You also need to weigh your options and see if his lifestyle will fit yours.
I feel you, but its up to you. If you really really like him, maybe you should, but it might end up that he doesn't like you or that he will cheat on his girlfriend. If he does like you make sure he breaks up with the other girl, because no girls deserves to be cheated on.
tell him that is whats best :) good luck :)
Wow, good question. Hopefully this will be a good answer. Life is too short to keep secrets, we all know we won't be in the same place forever so live for the moment. Tell him how you feel, what's the worse he can do? Not talk to you and tell his girlfriend, so what? Chances are you'll be in a whole other place 2 to 4 years from now. Forget living life for someone elses dismay, live life for you and do what makes you feel more important and happy. Just be cautious of hurting people, because that's the only no-no in living for you....well unless they hurt you first
there is a difference between lust and love. If it's lust, not worth it there are more men out there. Girl you should ask Wendy:}
I have the same problem as you, except his girl friend is pregnent! and he flirts with me all the time, which makes things soo much harder. Dont tell him how you feel now, it wouldnt be fair to his girl friend, and it would complicate your relationship with him for now.