I am well groomed and dresses neatly, but it has done nothing to change girl's opinion that I am very unattractive. I am intelligent and educated, completing a degree in biomedicine and works hard towards my career. I enjoy the outdoors, ballroom dancing, and very much a gentlemen who will open doors for people. I show people respect and good manners. People say that I am a nice person, intelligent, trustworthy, but never once has anyone said that I am attractive or rather date.
What is it that girls really want? Saying that personality is more important now seems to be a big lie to me. Because girls never look pass my appearance. I feel that I am doomed to never have a girlfriend again. What can I do?How does an unattractive guy find a girlfriend?
Confidence. Confidence can make anyone look good. Maybe you're trying to hard or looking in the wrong places. There is someone out there for you, keep your head up. YOu sound like a decent guy! Confidence though, all girls like that!How does an unattractive guy find a girlfriend?
I find that most of the time when a girl says something like ';don't worry, you'll find the right person'; is because they have already found their perfect match or they are deeply involved in a relationship.
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work. work. work...
whats it, like over 50% of the relationships happen at work...
ur smart, they will know that if ur like a doctor...or w/e (sorry)
when ya look ya dont find, and when ya dont look ya find!
thats what i live by!
Well all I can tell is that you look in a wrong places. Go to places where you can find a right girl for you. I mean, you are intelligent, that's a big plus, try to show your good qualities then your appearance won't matter that much. There are a lot of cute girls in a library, too...
you've been to the wrong place at the wrong time for the past 20 years of your life. really, personality is way more important than looks. trust me as i'm falling for a guy who is not good looking at all but has a great personality. you just haven't met the right girl yet. widen your option. go places where you haven't been to, where you least expect to meet a girl that will finally look pass your appearance.
if looks is what is killing you, go out with blind girl.
maybe you're setting you're standards too high. sometimes the most beautiful women are your closest friends.
don't settle for a supermodel and insist that you have her.
if that's the case, you won't get an ultra hot girl unless you're crazy rich.
*** by the way***all the qualities you posses are what real women want.
well, umm, I personally think you have been in the wrong places,and that tis time for you to pick some new places,try some new things and attract a different pool of people.
A lot of people base things on looks, when they shouldnt because someone can be a knock out and a complete asshole..its whats on the inside that counts !!
Dont you worry,there is a ';right'; person out there for you, you just havnt found her yet,but sometime in the future you will..
try going to some different places or hanging out with some different people..try some online dateing sites..www.singlesnet.com or there is www.eharmony.com
your only 20 - its not the end of the worls,,sit back,relax and enjoy life,,you entire future is in front of you and you will find that one special person
it's true, isn't it? we live in a harsh world! everyone,well almost everyone is judged by appearance.but u mustn't worry! i believe that everyone has a perfect mate.sometimes u find'em , sometimes u don't.but be positive. chances are ur dream girl is right in front of u and u don't even know it,and remember good things come to those who wait! good luck!
don't give up. your not giving yourself enough credit . you're a smart guy and chicks dig that. just wait until you find that girl that will look passed ur looks and will care more about the great things about you . also some chicks might not find you attractive. so what? other chicks will find u attractive. remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder . meaning some girls will think you're attractive. also have some confidence ...chicks highly dig that!
Dude , you are still 20, you are at the beginning of the way, at 20 you have finished your study, woowwww, how is it possible? it means that you are supper intelligent, now some Tips: CONFIDENT, that's all, and be a bit funny, not cheap, but funny and warm, in a way that the people like to hang out with you, don't be too polite and respectful, first of all the people like to have a cozily talk rather have a serious conversation,
start talking to the people, practice talking and hanging out with guys first and try to be a popular person , and don't afraid of girls, they are also human, nothing more, some body has written about supper hot models, or may be you expect something very special, thats right, you shouldn't expect something very special, the others are also human, nice enough and good enough.
and some thing els, don't rush up,you should get close to a girl very very slowly, let her get used to you ,thats all, even if you want, she will never let you scape from her.
there are lots of books and texts about this, spend few $ ,you wont regret,
don't worry, for every thing in our life we have to try and spend time and energy and...... nothing comes easily, this is also something you have to study about it and try to approach it,
good luck.
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