Please don't tell me to be patient and a girl will come. Because I heard that last year and it hasn't happened.How does an 18 year old shy guy get a girlfriend?
Be yourself. Get to know girls, show them your personality. You seem a really sweet guy and a lot of girls love that!!
Don't try to be someone you're not. Be prepared to establish a friendship with a girl and let it develop, don't try to rush into things.
I hope you someone special sweetie, and she'll be a lucky girl to have someone as nice as you!!How does an 18 year old shy guy get a girlfriend?
ask a girl out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Add me :)
Change,
Try and break your shyness,
that is what is keeping you back,
wear different clothes and
flirt, chat up and get to know girls.
We're not going to bite your hand off!
good luck
x
either be patient a lil longer...or visit a dating agency
Turn into an 18 year old Confident guy. =)
Attack Life, It's just going to kill you.
im pretty much where you are right now.
im trying the whole being patient thing. thats what my friends said to do, but it got me nowhere either.
i dont know what to say really, other than the fact that you're not alone.
Well,try and deal with your shyness,just think of the girl you like as a human.I know being shy can feel like a hold back but it isn't,You can do a 'shy' flirt,by giving eye contact,smiling etc,if she responds,talk to her if she doesn't talk to you,just remember that even if she does not you back,so what,there are other girls
Well, where do you usually go to hang out? If you see a girl that catches your eye, go up and talk to her. This may not be the easiest thing in the world when you're shy, but it'll boost confidence. And if you're having fun talking to a girl, ask her if she'd like to hang out some other time with you, for lunch or for dinner or something.
Try dating on teletext, you can text girls on there and I bet one of them will want to go with you (if your normal height and stuff).
answer:
stop being shy. this is a really simple answer- at all costs, you must FORCE yourself to approach girls and try talking to them.
go to clubs and bowling and movies and places at any and every opportunity. NEVER back down from a challenge- approach any and every girl that you see! (just dont try talking to them rite after the other, dotn make it so obvious)
even if you fail miserably the first day, or week, or even month, you WILL GET BETTER! you must FORCE yourself to learn to talk to them- talk cool and get a good voice and figure out what they like to talk about. get your friends to help you out, and go places with them where girls like to hang with guys. invite girls to hang with you guys.
PS no girls will come if you wait, thats BS. girls like a guy who is confident, outgoing, funny, talkative, cool, intelligent, sincere, sensitive, yet at the same time not dependent on them at all, and is wild and unpredictable oftentimes.
you show NONE of these traits by staying quiet! btw dont talk like a nerd... intelligence should be shown only once in a while when she asks for advice and then u give a thoughtful good answer, dont mention that youre smart or crap like that... that doesnt work. that just makes u look full of yourself (which they hate).
No dating sites, there so gay.
But seriously, be yourself, but try to be a little more open minded. Smiles =D and start talking to some of your friends that are girls. Believe me, if you can talk to them with confidence, you can talk to other girls with confidence. Get chilling with your dudes and girls down-pat then step it up and chill with some people that are out of your comfort zone. It will hopefully come in time. Go to the mall, and ask a random girl for her number, sounds silly, but its cute, and a pretty fun game to play. ((lol)) Text her, or call her. And just be friendly. -Goodluck home skillet xD
hey baby hit me up! I ll make u not shy anymore haha %26lt;3 shayla
Screw patient. You need to take some action here. I would suggest that you start off by being as friendly as possible to as many women as possible. You need the practice. I'm talking clerks, waitresses, pedestrians, school mates or co-workers (use some caution with the co-workers-you still have to show for work every day. You don't want someone chasing you that you hadn't actually meant to encourage or any of the other awkward situations that might result.)
This step alone will probably open some doors. Above and beyond that, it is the usual thing: Persue your interests (provided they are co-ed); frequent a new coffee shop; just get out there! If you're already out there, then it is time to start taking risks.
In an atmosphere like a bar, where women expect to be hit on, you can set yourself a goal to talk to 10 women. I think it is best just to go up to them and ask to buy them a drink, or dance, or whatever. Never mind the small talk. This is a numbers game and you have no time to waste. If number one doesn't want to do anything with you, move on to number two...
Well, that should get you started, anyway.
Remember to think of it all as a game and approach it in a light hearted manner. Best of luck. Drop an e-mail and let me know how you make out.
go to a singles club like a bar and get drunk before you go. Many bars allow 18 and up until midnight depending on jurisdiction. If you cant get alcohol from anyone robitussin or store brand equivelant will do the trick (of getting you to come out of your shell).
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