My girlfriend and i love eachother dearly. The only problem i have is with her guy friend. I know he likes her that doesn't bother me at all. A little while ago for some reason my insecurities got the best of me and my life spun out of control. I got over this when i realized how depressed i was getting over nothing. The problem is this guy is always trying to text her and even when she doesn't respond he continues to text her. i have seen texts from him that say i really want you. i miss you. i like you. she just tells him that she is with me. i trust this girl with my life. i mean this guy needs to have some respect towards the fact that she is in a relationship. these texts he sends her he needs to keep this to himself. my question is should i talk to the guy about this or not?Girlfriends guy friend?
Talk to your girlfriend about it first. Tell her it bothers you and that the guy is being very disrespectful to her and you. Tell her that if she doesn't have a chat with him, you will have to because you can't do that anymore. It's wrong for him to send messages like that to her. He's not being a good friend to your girlfriend if he isn't even respecting her choices.Girlfriends guy friend?
i say most definitely. if he cant get the hint that she doesnt want him, she wants you, you need to step in a create that line of boundries. if you dont, he's gonna just keep doing it more and more. and the only way to get hime to stop is telling him, ';dude, back off. she doesn't want you. please just leave her alone.';
First bring it up with your girlfriend before hand,
or she'll feel like you DON'T trust her.
Get her opinion of it, and if she doesn't want you to, don't.
If she doesn't want you to, sneak in some dirty glares to him.
Or kiss her in front of him. ;)
u know what?
u should talk to him!
if he doesnt get the point, even when its comin from his bestie, its time to put ur foot down.
tell him shes urs and needs to back off or u will have to stop talkin to her.
tell him it bothers u and that it needs to stop!
good luck! :]
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def talk to him lay down the law straight up!
Oh yeah....you should talk to him before it gets worse. Its like he's stalking. He's taking some of her time away from you. Every contact he gives her it takes time away from you talking to her and doing stuff w/ out interruptions.
I think you should step to the plate and tell dude that she is your girlfriend and that he needs to quit texting her and if he doesn't he's going to hear from you again. What he is doing is disrespectful to you because it says ';I know she is your girl but I don't care.'; This should end really quick after you set him straight. Good Luck and God Bless
ya talk to him about it FOR SURE
I don't know?
See, I'm the girl with the guy friends. There's nothing between us, we just have a good time together and like to talk. We say 'I miss you', but nothing else like that.
Yeah, the guy needs to have a lot more respect. You might ask your girlfriend if she'd like you to talk to him about it...or if she'd mind if you did. After all, he's her friend.
go break his fingers, now he can't text ,problem solved
Dude, tell hime to **** off. Tell he better stop txting her or your gonna have problems.
i say go for it
beat the shyt out of him!
okay well only if ur gf doesnt mind
cuz tht can be the start of a huge fight.
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