He lives out of town but is around every once in a while to work on a project I have with me and my friends. We get on really well and I like him! How can I take the friendship we have more lightly and stop myself from falling for him??How do I NOT fall for a guy with a girlfriend?
You cant keep yourself from falling for someone just as much as you cant help your self for loving somebody who is detrimental to your health.
The only way to keep your self out of this situation is to move far away and never to see him again. Otherwise your emotions will take control and you'll start feeling like a tramp or a whore or whatever stupid label people will lay upon you simply because your emotions have gotten the better of you as they do to so many others. Its easy for others to chastise you while they most likely live with the same problem on one level or another. Its not wrong to fall for a married man/woman, there are plenty of times when you have no choice in the matter. Its just simply biological, so how can you be wrong for a feeling you didn't choose to have? Many people would gladly pay to end their emotions for somebody who is out of reach.How do I NOT fall for a guy with a girlfriend?
just look the other way
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Why do you have to stop falling for him...
It is not like they are married.
Get flirty.
i see no shame in that/
Find another guy to crush on? Find a distraction.
Kick him in the balls...
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Think about how you would feel if you were the girlfriend. Even if he leaves his girlfriend for you, that obviously shows that he's not the most committed person. How do you know he won't do the same to you? Either way, everyone is going to get hurt in someway and it's not worth it.
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