I feel as if im terrible talking to women?

Well, i know i can be ok, but i have a friend on msn and his girlfirend is really flirty, shes not seriouse but she added me, and my other friend, because we were in a 4 way conversation - talking about a girl i like on facebook, and eventually they somehow started talking about sex and she became a diplomat on behalf of the female species... but anyway.



anyway, this guys girlfriend starts talking to me, just me alone, and just general and being friendly. i have NOTHING to say to her! nothing at all, i felt really uncomfortable so i just shut down msn, which i know she will take offence to.



i should be able to talk to her, but i feel extremely intimidated, and dont want to say anything wrong. i dont know her in real life, i know shes on other side of london.



also, about this girl on facebook - i spoke to her for 3 hours 2 days ago, and 2 hours yesterday. The conversation went flat because i run out of things to say. She wouldn't answer question properally either, i think i may have been boring her. I may have blown my chances, but i guess i havnt lost anything really because i didnt do ';anything stupid'; - i just think its clear shes not interested.



although im not sure, because she was reading what i was saying and then replying quite fast. conversation was at a peak for about 40 minutes, talking about alchole and silliest things she had done which is quite good to talk about. although i have never been drunk, i suggested isnt it weird to drink alone she said nah but its not as fun.



I dont know if this girl on facebook is shy, or she doesnt know me very well. we went to primary school, hardly talked then because i was too shy to approach her, i was like 9 and had a crush on her. im not as shy now, but i still worry that im boring. my life isnt very eventful, ive spent most of my holiday on the internet talking to people and listening to revision tapes which i somehow hope are going in.



i dont go out and get drunk, ive never been drunk, and my friends in school i wouldnt want to meet them out school partly because they live far away, and because i dont get on that well with them. also, alot of my friends are school are asian, which is fine im not complaining, but they do have good morals in that they dont get drunk. which is a good thing, but all of us seem to stay in and talk online...which is a bad thing.



this girl seems to get drunk regularly although i wonder if shes just telling me that because she thinks that's what i want to here. I ask her question and she will just reply with a very broad answer or is non specific, but still answers the question. its like she doesnt want to tell me about her self.



When a guys girlfriend on msn asks me ';what you doing'; or ';how was your day'; i dont know what to say - because truth is i rolled out bed a mid day, watched horse racing, lost 拢1, went upstair played ac2, did some weights, then went on laptop. not very exciting is it? also quite boring, makes me seem sad, and i suppose i am...I feel as if im terrible talking to women?
';rolled out bed a mid day, watched horse racing, lost 拢1, went upstair played ac2, did some weights, then went on laptop'; when they ask what you've been up to they (hopefully) aren't expecting fireworks, so that's much better than nothing. If you can slip a joke in there somehow then that's a bonus...unless she's a little bit slow in which case it could be awkward.I feel as if im terrible talking to women?
Ask them there asl.. And how there doing! It might seem lame, but still you don't wanna lead a girl on right?!! Never meet someone unless a friend goes with you..

Trust me i've made the same mistake before.. Lets just say im lucky im alive!