I feel SO bad!?

my best friends (who is a guy) girlfriend broke up with him...because of me! She didn't like that he was best friends with a girl! he REALLY loved her and REALLY wants to get back together with her. How do I convince her that we are ONLY friends. He is like my brother!I feel SO bad!?
ha. sounds like the situation I'm in... I would be the girlfriend. I can tell you her side of the story.... she's insecure, she doesn't trust him, but all of this is only cause she doesn't want to be hurt. I think you should try to get together with her and explain how it really is, and how you feel about it. maybe it'll make her feel much better if she hears how much this guy likes her. but other than that, you cant really fully make her feel comfortable with him being friends with a girl. that's something she needs to deal with herself.I feel SO bad!?
she's jealous of you. I'm the same way with my boyfriends friends whom are girls. I have a reason though. The two girls are in LOVE with him!
Well you can't convince her...

She's just stupid and insecure... paranoid.

that shows she didn't really trust him..
If he is your brother, how could she have a problem with you.

You two are never going to become anything, because if you did (I don't even want to think about it)

The girl is just weird.
Huh. My closest friends are all female, and I do run into that occasionally. When push comes to shove, I can't see myself being with someone who can't accept my friends, who is so possessive that I can't be around them without feeling guilty.



So sure, try to explain yourself to her if you want (not that you should have to). But if it doesn't work out, then it's her loss. Imagine your friend having to feel guilty for being around you, possibly for the rest of his life. That's no fun.
talk to her personally about the problem, and say he's like your brother. Maybe you and her can be friends too, then that way things wont be too werid.
tell her that the guy is in love with her

and from what happened he's hurt just

becoz she is looking at u and ur friend

worng. and that the 2 of u are only best

friends and the both of u are very sure

to not have a relationship over that line.

tell her everything so that she will

understand. and if she doesnt, then thats

her loss for getting her jelousy get in the way

hope it all works out for u and ur mate :D

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