Am I A Crazy Girlfriend??? Guys & Girls Advice Please!?

Here's The Story...



My boyfriend and i have been together for 7 years we have been living together for 3 years.. We are also young only 21...



Me and him have been having problems with him going out clubbing every weekend, I have never been to a club and I prefer not to I believe that there is no need for me to go out and party. I have a really good job and he is in school still. So that means I have all 40 year old friends and all his friends are young and party animals..



Last night he went out it was only supposed to be for 2-3 hours he ended up leaving at 6 and didn't get home until 5am...He admitted to going out to a club and then going back to a girls apt. We both know this girl and why i don't think he slept with her she lives with 7 other girls who i don't know...



When he got home he smelled like beer so bad I couldn't even sleep next to him....



I can not stop crying I am so beyond hurt i don't know what to do..



My boyfriend is saying I am over reacting but what do you guys think??



How would you react if this happened to you??? What is the right way to approach him?Am I A Crazy Girlfriend??? Guys %26amp; Girls Advice Please!?
The way I see it you have 4 options. The first is to leave him and find someone you are more compatible with. Second is that you talk with him about his partying ways and get him to either stop or to go less frequently and adhere to the set times for returning home and of course never to stay at a girls house. The third option would be for you to start going out with him maybe to like clubs or bars with a more mature atmosphere where you can be comfortable as well. And lastly you can just keep doing what your doing now letting him go out to clubs on his own and do as he pleases without considering your feelings, of course by going with this option you'll just be opening yourself up to more heartache. Good luck with whatever you decide.Am I A Crazy Girlfriend??? Guys %26amp; Girls Advice Please!?
No you are not over reacting at all, you should talk to him about this and also tell him to at least be home in time make it sound as if its a warning then if he makes the same mistake again you should just leave his ***! guys going to club are no good.. it leads to cheating and sex.
i think you should talk to this girl (the one whose house he went to) and see what happened there. you should also talk to your boyfriend, and talk it out with him.
I'd be upset too. I think you should have another talk about trust and limitations.Try to approach it in a calm matter so he wont feel like you're accusing him of doing anything
i would probably be upset as well..

you just need to talk about it some more and relax..

maybe take some time to yourself.

just you should talk to him...
tell him to please stop going clubbing. tell him ';if u really love me, will you please stop going partying? just for me?';
I don't think you're overreacting. If I was in your position and my boyfriend went clubbing with his friends and stayed out until 5:00 in the morning, I would be pissed! Plus, you add in the fact that he was at a girl's apartment... let's just say that things in my household would definitely be intense. :)



However, you do need to talk to him about it. If you love him and trust that he didn't do anything, then there's no need to fight about it. You do need to tell him where you stand, but don't yell. Guys get defensive if you yell at them and it's only going to cause more conflict. Also... explain to him how much that hurt you, and ask how he would feel if you were out till 5:00am and at some guy's apartment.



Maybe if he sees it from your shoes it'll help the situation.



Good Luck, and I hope this helped. :)