Girlfriend for 3 years, happy, but secretly look at gay porn!?

Just wanted to get your opinion on what you guys think of my situation.



Im a guy who has been in a strong relationship with my girlfrriend for 3 years. I love her to bits, want to marry her and am always attracted to her physically, mentally and emotionally.



Iv always fancied girls, regularly look at 'straight porn' and had girlfriends and had good sex. Since i was around 14, iv always looked at good looking guys, never fancied them or want to date them or marry them. Just thought they were good looking. Im 24 now, for the past say 5 years, iv looked at good looking muscular men and have been sexually attracted to them. I probably get this from regularly looking at gay porn which turns me on and so does straight porn equally.



I have had sex with a guy, but not whilst i had a girlfriend and this was about 3 and a half years ago. I aint a camp guy, im not attracted to camp guys. My girlfriend does not suspect any bisexual feelings from me nor would i ever cheat on her with a guy or girl.



I love my girlfriend we have a great sex life, i look at normal porn but also love looking at gay porn and sometimes i wish i could just mess around with a fit guy. But obviously guys i would never cheat.



I admit i am a bisexual, but would never want to settle down with a man, marry them of leave my girlfriend for one.



I just want to know if anyoneelse feels like this and any advice for my feelings and how to possibly get rid of them?



Thank you in advance,Girlfriend for 3 years, happy, but secretly look at gay porn!?
I'd encourage you to stay away from porn until you have talked about this with your girlfriend. You would be wiser not to tell he about the past use of porn, and also wise to be honest about your bisexual feelings. After 3 years, she has a right to know who she is with.Girlfriend for 3 years, happy, but secretly look at gay porn!?
Geez, it seems like all guys who have been in long term relationships become attracted to men. I know some of them. I'm not bisexual, but whatever your feeling is natural for you. You can't really get rid of that feeling, deal with it and turn 100% gay.
you cant get rid of them they are your fantasies and your emotions you cant change them and its ok to have them. i myself have a fiance that is hot as hell fell hes way too good for me but anyways i see guys sometimes and think they are good looking but i would never want anything more from them then just the thought they were good looking and im sure he does the same with girls he sees too. same with your girl friend im sure she fantasizes about guys but would never act on her feelings. the only thing that makes itt different for you is that you are bi. that's it and its ok. every one has their fantasies. its ok dont get scared or taken back by it. i do however recommend you tell your girlfriend. think if you were in her shoes would you want such a big secrete kept from you. it will be nice to have someone to talk to about it.
You need to get the porn out of your life all together it is an addiction to you. Sleeping with a guy, Ok I can handle that one time thing but you must have liked it. I personally find nothing attractive about a mans body a womans body is incredible. you need to choose gay or straight before she finds out and cans your fruitty behind
it's normal.

you're a bisexual.

but i'm sorry, your girlfriend will never accept you for who you are.

that's just the way girls are.

all of a sudden, they're insecure about you talking to both girls AND guys, and even just looking at them.

it won't work.