Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Guy Troubles (Ex girlfriend involved!)?

So there's this guy. I have three classes with him and I've only talked to him a few times. But now I have new classes and we just happen to be in the same gym class. I barely talk to him (just saying stuff like ';Good Job';, ';Thanks';, etc. I REALLY want to talk to him and get to know him BUT THERE'S NO BIG PROBLEM! His ex girlfriend is kind of one of my friends (aka - not a very close friend). I'm not sure how the break-up happened but I know for sure that she still likes him (and I'm not sure if he likes her or not but yeah.....) I really just want a chance to talk to him, but having her still like him is a BIG obstacle. I've tried to talk to him a few times, but she kinda gets in the way.....So what should I do?? Any tips??



By the way, please don't say ';Just talk to him'; - I need detail!



Please and Thank You =)Guy Troubles (Ex girlfriend involved!)?
I have good news and bad news:



Good:- your in high school and you can talk to who ever you want. you shouldn't be afraid to live your live on the fact that some girl you know used to date a guy. when we get technical doesn't everyone we know used to date someone?



What you need to do:- alright you have a couple of classes with him if she is in some of them make sure you talk to him in the class that she isn't in. Alright start by flirting after all you don't want to try and talk to some one if they aren't interested. See if he flirts back and if he does you have him.



You can flirt by complimenting him...you have sexy eyes, your outfit is cute. you have a nice smile things like that. then just ease into casual conversation what are you doing this weekend? what do you like to do for fun? things like that.



Bad news:- depending on how close of friends you were with the girl and you said not really then you wouldn't mind loosing her as a friend. she might be hurt but its life and things go on. you can't go through life doing what makes others happy. if you do then who will make you happy?



keep safe and good luck.Guy Troubles (Ex girlfriend involved!)?
Just DON'T talk to him he will not be worth the drama and there will be drama if the ex still wants him plus dating a friend's ex is not a good look really looks desperate if u ask me there are so many other guys out there
Well there has got to be a time where your friend isn't with you guys. When she isn't, just start a conversation. I mean i know that you don't want to hurt your friend, but you got to think about yourself and how you feel about him too.

Hope this helps =]
My wife told me one big golden rule never date your friends ex sorry maybe he's not worth ruing your friendship over either.
talk
There is a reason why she is the EX...If you cant just talk to him, then go up to him one day and say... hey im having trouble in (fill in the blank) Class and was wondering if we could meet (fill in the blank) after school on (fill in the blank) day and you could help me go over it.



Thus, having him spend time with you, and you get to study too. And you give him your # and/or get his and say, call/text me when is good for you...

Flip the hair

i really appreciate the help.

Blink.

smile.

Score.
Honestly I would leave hime alone for now and see what happens between them two. You don't want him to wind up dumping you to get back with her if they both still have feelings for one another.
lol...lol.... slider off A CLIFF ... PROBLEM SOLVED!... SHES GOT ONION BREATH ANYWAY!
A Friend would not try this move. However there are ways to manipulate the playing field. 1) Talk to her find out whats going on and why he don't like her. 2) Step up the conversation with him and find out his side of the story. This will start a Dialogue between them to clear things up then that opens the door for you. there is more to it than this but you will figure it out.



good luck

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