just compliment a girl.
being a teenage girl i can tell you that girls let boys take control and they really don't care what you say as long as you are trying.
just be sweet and play in cute not cool...cute is much easier and much better.
don't dress to impress or anything.be yourself and i'm sure that girls will be all over you.be sensitive and listen to a girl's feelings and thoughts.
you are still young though.give it time and you will find someone special.How does an 18 year old shy guy get a girlfriend?
you sound like me.
i'm really shy and quiet, and had my first bf at 18.
just try to find someone who won't mind your shyness. some girls find it a turn-on.
maybe you could go online?
yahoo chats..you go onto yahoo messenger then you click on menu or something and then it will say chats(or maybe chatroom) you'll find in then you sign in and then you are talking to hundreds of single people :)
eharmony.com
match.com
what do you mean by random girls in the street ? get your self out to your local pubs/ clubs that would be a start or you could try internet dating to talk to some one first
one way is this:
find someone that you are interested in, find her msn addy on facebook, bebo, my space, ask one of your friends, etc.
start talking to this person on msn
ask if you want to do something with her, a day out
your confidence will grow in this person, ask her out, voila, casserole dish (:
(2 bad if you havent got an msn addy, haha =P)
Good Luck.
join clubs, be more out-going.
just remember, a girl can't like you if you don't let her in.
being shy won't help with anything.
Just remember that there are lots of shy girls out there too. It depends on how picky you are.
I personally know lots of incredibly nice girls that might not have the rockin' bods and looks, and are single. When you're young that's what seems to go with the guys. Watch out for them, catch their eye!
i know it's so cliche and annoying...
but when it's supposed to happen it will.
until then, enjoy being single. i know that's tough though when all you want is someone to share your time with, but the more you think about it the worse you will feel...
besides, i find the idea of a an 18 year old shy guy quite attractive :D
hang on in there and miss right will appear!
good luck xxxxxxxx
try meeting new ppl and going out more
someone will come :) shy guys are cute =] i feel comfortable around them.. everyone has a someone, maybe you just havent come across yours yet.. also so what if your brother's dating someone.. he's 14 .. you know how things are like when your 14 you think you LOVE every passing girl when you dont, :) just carry on with your everyday life and dont seem to desperate :] x
Shy lads are just the best. There nothing worse than a abnoxious loud idiot :D
go buy a shirt some smart shoes and some fragrance, not perfume that sounds like a bender.
than go hit the clubs and use a pick up line
here are a few of my favs:
im no fred flinstone but i can make your bed-rock
i know milks good for the body, but damn girl how much have you been drinking
than once your past second base the rest is all yuros ;-)
im very shy to sart off with too and i know its hard but its so sweet how you will be so happy with someone so you sound like a really nice guy :) you will get someone you seem lovely
I don't think that there is a problem with it at all.
All I think that you would ever need to do is say hi, try to start a short conversation with her, or him, and that's when you decide to see if she wants to go out on a date with you, or not. If asking if ';she would like to go on a date with you, or not'; makes you stutter, or too shy you could try asking if she would like to have a dinner with you, or if she is busy you could try giving her your number.
Keep in mind that many people say he/she are busy if they don't want to go on a first date with you.
I have not done this, but this is what I would personally do. I am not currently interesting in having a girl friend, however if a girl was to ask me out I would accept it.
I told you everything with what I would do after hearing my fellow teens ask each other out at the mall, school, and anywhere else.
There is really nothing to it, just be your self, and you should be fine.
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