Bi, Threesome with girlfriend and best guy friend?

I'm bi, and a few months ago I had a threesome with my girlfriend and a close guy friend of mine. Recently, I found out I'm pregnant[Scary]. I didn't expect it at all, and I don't know what to do first. What do I tell my girlfriend? The guy? I mean, I don't think getting an abortion would be something I could do. But I really want to stay with my girlfriend, even though I don't think she's going to want to be with me any longer. How do you predict she'll react when I tell her? Advice, please?Bi, Threesome with girlfriend and best guy friend?
I'm so sorry. That sucks really bad. Well you should tell both your girlfriend and the guy because it wouldn't be right if you didn't. Ask them for their opinions. She'll probably be sad, but if she loves you, she'll stay with you, I mean she agreed to the threesome too. How would you react if it was her that got pregnant instead? Maybe she'll act the same way. Good luck.Bi, Threesome with girlfriend and best guy friend?
was she in the three some with u and ur guy friend??

i don't see what the problome that she has with u being pregnant!

did he not where protection cause u might not be the only one pregnant!

i don't see what she has to be mad at!

unless she was against it in the beginning!

i think she will be supportive of u!! don't worry it will all work out! u should tell ur girlfriend and then the father (in that order!) so she knows first and doesn't feel betrayed or somethig
If I were you, I won't have threesome as it will f*cked your life up. Please don't do it.
Just tell her,it's a good chance to b mother together.Good luck! If she loves you,she will b with you.
Let me try to understand your situation here you are in bisexual / lesbian relationship with another woman. During that relationship you have had a ffm threesome (f-f couple that invites another male) and as a result of the threesome you became pregnant?



If that is the case then I do not see the issue for your girlfriend. She participated in the threesome and knew that there would be a risk of pregnancy to the both of you. Yeah she may be upset initially but she knew the risks which means she should be understanding in the long run. She may even surprise you by being supportive and understanding.



What to do is the bigger issue. One option would be to tell your girlfriend and not tell the guy. It might be one way for the two of you to bond as a couple and have a family. If that is the case then I would speak with a lawyer and have some type of cohaibitation agreement drawn up.



Second option would be to tell both of them but raise the child on your own regardless of what happens with your girlfriend. She may be supportive which would be great but if she does not want to be with you then you can raise the child on your own with child support from the baby's father. If you choose this option I would speak with a lawyer to understand your rights. It is possible that given the fact you are bi the baby's father might, in this case, try to get custody or joint custody.



Third option, though your posting does not read as though it is an option, is to marry or live with the father. I do not believe in the long-run such a situation would work and it may create more problems than what it is worth. Nonetheless it is an option.



Fourth option would be to give the child up for adoption. However reading your posting I do not feel this is not a viable option for you. It maybe one way you could keep your girlfriend but I believe you would regret it later. Furthermore I believe if you chose this option it would create tension amongst the two of you and would destroy your relationship. Also from reading your posting you seem to be quite stable with no economic issues, addiction issues, or in a situation that would create an unstable household for a child. Therefore I do not feel adoption is the best choice.



In my opinion you are worried about the unknown and I believe things will work out the best for you. Your posting reads as though you are a caring person and any child would be lucky to have a mother like you. So relax and deal with each issue as they come up. My advice would be to tell your girlfriend first and then take it from there.