How to get a girlfriend, how to meet one?

I鈥檓 23 and never had a girlfriend in my life ever before and I would really like to. I鈥檓 so shy to approach a girl because I always feel the fear of rejection because I try to get close with a few girls before and that is what happens. If a girl starts the conversation first I will continue it. I just want to be accepted for one time, but I feel that no girl doesn鈥檛 want to be with me because this happen to me 3 times. How would I know if a girl is single or not? That is another problem that stops me a lot. I feel like it hopeless. I feel like I鈥檓 nobody type of guy who they want to be with. I feel like I look different from other guys and sometime I feel like the weird one and that is why I cannot get anyone, maybe they see me as weird person. I鈥檓 American Indian and I鈥檓 snot sure of American girls even like Indian guys because it seems every semester that pass I never get one that approaches me, well sometime if its school related but never further. I don鈥檛 act mean like I鈥檓 hard or a gangster, so why I don鈥檛 have anyone? I see many guys have girlfriends and I wonder why I can鈥檛 be like them. Why can鈥檛 I have someone? I鈥檓 not cocky; I don鈥檛 consider myself better than everybody.

If I did talk to a girl I feel like I gotta pick the right choices of words and I get quiet because I can鈥檛 think of something. I just don鈥檛 know what to say. Sometime s I could be walking by or riding the bus and I get a girl stare at me for a second or two, I feel embarrassed so I look away from her, I feel nervous because I鈥檓 thinking she thinks I鈥檓 a horrible looking.

So I鈥檓 trying to tell myself that I was never met to be with anyone because I never been with anyone. If I never been with anyone now, then I will never be with anyone soon. I bet by 2010 I will still be the same old single guy. And the same for 2011. It just never changes. I see guys BAM get a date like its nothing, and so hard for me. I wish I was pure American and not Asian Indian.How to get a girlfriend, how to meet one?
Do not worry so much. I'm 23 and in the same boat as you. I've come to realize that if you quit doubting yourself %26amp; then things will happen for you. Someone special will come along, just got to be patient.



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I can definetely relate, though i'm on the other side of the problem. I am u in female version, with a bit more confidence. franckly, I learned not to care about being single and concentrate on bigger more important issues, and so should u.

and honey, asian indian is a plus in so many girl's book