My girlfriend sent a racy photo to another man.?

My girlfriend and i have been together for nearly two years. I love her very much, however recently she has been in contact with one of her male friends. I didn't think much of it and even spent some time with this guy at her behest. I got an e-mail the other night though from the same guys ex girlfriend detailing how she found a racy photo of my girlfriend inside and linked it to myself. I confronted my girlfriend about this and she confessed saying that she wasn't thinking clearly and that she felt bad the instant she did it. I asked her to cut ties with him and she complied, but i find trusting her incredibly hard, how do i get passed this?My girlfriend sent a racy photo to another man.?
what was her explanation for sending them? was she flirting and hoping to attract him? if this is the case, she will probably be gone soon.My girlfriend sent a racy photo to another man.?
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i'd dump her
umm dude i think you should seriously break up with her clearly you cant trust her. you said yourself you cant exactly trust her that well
SHe's cheating on you bro. Believe it.
You have to tell her how you feel about it even if it does risk loosing your relationship. I mean, it's not very likely for it last if you can't get pass the trust issues and the only hope of doing that is confronting her about it. Sometimes it breaks your heart too much to the point beyond repair and maybe it's not meant to be. The perfect song for this is ';Broken Strings'; by James Morrison by the way.
just tell her how you really feel about her honesty, and also tell her if she continues to direspect you, that you is going to break if off.
Will take time but at least she cut all ties with him and committed to you.
yeah she wasn't gonna say it when she wasn't caught man. I should think about this. You might give her a other opportunity but i wouldn't like it.
She will need to gain your trust again and should apologise greatly to you. I wouldn't take ';wasn't thinking straight'; as an answer to this. You should tell how you really feel about it and ask her how she feels about you and really why she done it.



Good luck
dump her
You don't. She lost your trust and she will have to slowly gain it back again
Break up with her. (:
Man that's a tough one. Time will be the only way to gain trust. I would suggest letting her find pics of a girl on your phone but revenge is not the wisest strategy if you wanna heal the relationship. It's so hard to trust someone after they falter, but you have to dig deep into your heart and ask yourself if your love for her is worth the risk and time it takes to regain the trust. It usually is
tell her how you feel about that. if she fails to stop maintaining your trust then...i say find someone else. good luck
If you do get passed it, its gonna be hard. Im sorry but theres no way she remained 'just friends' with him and she just sent a picture like that to him 1 time. Now im not necessarily saying she was cheating on you, but she definitally wasnt honest about their 'friendship'. And i also dont know what you mean by rancy..if you mean naked or partially naked to be honest i would dump her right then and there, she knew before she sent it that is not an acceptable thing for a girlfriend to do. If the photo isnt that bad then you might be able to get over it. Just give it time, pay attention to what she does and make sure you dont give her your trust back until your truly ready, if she really is sorry about what she did then she'll understand why you cant trust her again quiet yet. Good luck to you
its over with shes a ho
It actually happened to me before. I ended the relationship as soon as I could. In the end, she was cheating on me.
its something you both need to work at together.



firstly make sure she knows your finding it hard, you shouldnt suffer this on your own.



secondly, I dont know her, or any detials other than what you've written, however, I kinda believe her. there's worse things she could have done. and the absence of this info can point to the fact she didnt do much other than send a pic.



if you've spoken to the guys ex GF, Im pretty sure she would have had all the dirt on both of them.



good luck mate.