My girlfriend broke up with me because she was confused about an ex. its looong but i REALLY need help! HELP!?

ill call her K. K had a 3 month relationship with a boy she felt was so amazing. She had been treated unfair in a relationship before this guy and she felt so hurt that she had made a mistake.Now that she is dating this new guy, There was a silent beef between K and this new guys ex-girlfriend basically because HE was involved, you know how that goes. So that alone added drama to their situation and even though she tried to fight it off, it took a toll on how much she put into that relationship. K was a virgin and due to family situations she always snuck around and went against many rules to do things. This was her first few tastes of sexual things with anyone. She was convinced that what they did was the best feeling she knew of. He left her to be with his ex again and broke K's heart. K had been in a heartbroken situation for the 2nd time and said that she will never go for the same kind of person again. She was so upset that she lost what she put so much into. That the 3rd mistake could really mess her up. K and i had been good friends and became best friends. She knows that i am a loyal guy that believes in 1 woman in my life and full trust and honesty. In my 3 years of knowing this girl i have never told her a lie. She is too innocent to have anyone do these kinds of things to her she doesnt deserve that. I keep my promises and she asked me to promise that ill never hurt her and that ill never let her make a mistake and lose me. Shorty after that short relationship between them, which ended in June, me and K developed STRONG feelings for one another and it resulted in me and K vibing and falling for eachother and finally kissing in November. She had been everything i ever wanted in a girl and i also had 2 relationship busts before her and felt like a 3rd time could really ruin me. She lost her virginity to me in April 2008.

We had been a developing couple with nothing but happiness and few arguments that resulted in us making up and falling deeper in love. We were finally confident that she knew this was love. She finally admitted shortly after that she was officially IN love with me and i was too. After celebrating 1 year in November of 2008, she knew she was in love with me and wants nothing but happiness with me. i feel the same way about her.





Throughout that year she felt little feelings for this ex of hers, but she knew it didnt measure up to what me and her have. She had been declared happy with me. She was soo attatched to me and i was attatched to her also. Her family loves me, and my family never cared for my girlfriends but they absolutely LOVE her. The sexual things

we do drive her crazy that she laughs at what she thought was good from her ex. Relations with her only get better and better each time and we love it. I have so many things to try with her and she can't see herself going to anyone else for it. It is good enough to bragg she says.

She is strongly attracted to me in so many ways and its hard to keep her mind off of anything, weather its sexual, or just social hang out time, or ANY time really to just be around me. I am a capricorn and she is a pisces, so we have alot of what the other lacks. She

loves my presence and still does. Her ex has to be jealous about this because the girl he left K for turned out to be a bust. Now i am treating her like a queen and she loves and adores what we have and she couldnt let go if she wanted.



In January of 2009 he finally decideds to tell her that he missed her and that he wishes he had her back. That he was dumb and he knows she is mad at him for it. Her and my friends know that me and K are like the happiest and cutest couple they know. We had even been told that we are role models for other peoples relationships. We both agree that he had his chance and he hurt her. I never hurt her and she is truely happy with me now. She agrees, but she does know that he is really sorry. As a result she didn't feel right liking us both at the same time so she broke up with me to spare my feelings. by doing that she hurt me which hurt her. The next day he asked to speak to her and express himself guilt free since she is now single. In the midst of apologizing, he kisses her. He didn't mean to break our relationship but he did what he did. It feels good to her because she's already hurt for hurting me, and it satisfys her curiosity and reminds her of good times but she knows its wrong because its hurting what she cant let go of, which is me. I was not sad that she still felt something for him but i was hurt when she refused to help herself. I was hurt that she broke up with me. I was hurt that she tried not to care and she really did. She was truely everything to me and she says im truely like her heart so she hurts now because i am hurt. She feels like she wants to be with him again,

but she knows that would hurt me and its truely not in her heart to go back to him. She even feels how complicated it would be to go back to him. Its her curiosMy girlfriend broke up with me because she was confused about an ex. its looong but i REALLY need help! HELP!?
Stop writing a book!!!! Relationships are tough. Just let her go. In time she will realize who she wants to be with. Just be patient with her, if you still want her in your life be there as a friend for her. Don't pressure her, it only makes things worse. ';If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's true love'; Just hang in there, step back a little and give her time to decide. You were her first so there will always be love for you... it just not be as much as you would like. Hang in there things will work out eventually.My girlfriend broke up with me because she was confused about an ex. its looong but i REALLY need help! HELP!?
i don't understand why she has gone back to liking this ex after all he dumped her to be with somebody else. I think that he was jealous of yours and K's relationship and he couldn't care less about her that's why he is playing with her feelings. you really need to talk to her about this because she is definitely going to make that 3rd mistake if she falls for his tricks, and the biggest mistake of all would be letting go of you, the one she loves! I reckon if you get back together then it will make you both stronger. Remind her over and over again that you made her a promise not to let her make that 3rd mistake and don't stop fighting to get her back. If she loves you soo much then she will realize that she's doing wrong and she'll know to do the right thing. what i think she should do is break off any relationship she has with this ex as it's just going to confuse her even more. you are both clearly in love, you've just got to fight to get her back, the more time you spend together will make her realize your suppose to be together. and the more time you spend apart she will realize how much she misses not being with you!

sorry i can't be much of a help, i do hope everything goes okay and that you get back together, i will be interested to know what happens!

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