What kind of guy abandons his girlfriend when she's pregnant?

I recently found out I was pregnant by my boyfriend of six months. At first he was supportive (I haven't made a decision what I want to do). Then he began to check out being insensitive, and not caring about my feelings. We got into an argument and I haven't heard from him in a month. I called him a week after and he hasn't returned my phone call. It's not that he's such a catch but I'm so hurt that he can just walk and make me deal with this. He always brags about how much integrity he has. He's in the military and he constantly gloating to others how he going to war like he's such a good guy. We had problems in our relationship but we cared about eachother and seemed to be able to talk things out. I did see him cut two good friends out of his life like it was nothing when they made him mad. Now, I guess it's me. How do I get through this alone? I miss him but hate him at the same time. Have I been dating a monster?What kind of guy abandons his girlfriend when she's pregnant?
Contact his Cheif Commander. He won't be happy at all. He will set him straight. Also file for child support. Than call me if you need a good friend or support partner. Maybe he his just scared???? Wait until his Staff sargent hears about this.What kind of guy abandons his girlfriend when she's pregnant?
';What kind of guy abandons his girlfriend when she's pregnant?';



A cowardly one. The pregnancy didn't change him, it just exposed the loser he really is.
Maybe hes just scared
only a jerk would do that!

he should stay by your side
No offense but he sounds like a jerk. And if he is uncaring and flakey, you can not count on him. Surround yourself with people you know in your gut will love and support you through thick and thin. Good luck!
WELL GURL LOOK YOUR BOYFRIEND OR EX IS JERK I MEAN WELL HE SHOULDENT BE LIKE THAT BUT I HOPE YOU GET THROUGH IT WELL WITHTHE BABY I MEAN NO ONE WANTS THERE BABY TO HAV A BAD LIFE WELL THATS ALL I CAN TELL YOU
A STUPID A.SS mo`fuc.ckin jerk
He obviously doesn't have integrity. Be sure to contact legal aid so the moment baby is born he will be legally responsible to pay child support. it's a shame...but this is another reason that parents stress to their children to not have unprotected sex and to wait until after marriage before conceiving. You can do well on your own....just DONT make the same mistake by feeling you need ';another daddy'; in the picture for your child. Your parents will be all that you will need. Have a good pregnancy and now is the time to focus on baby's needs and not men or dating. best of luck to you. Sorry he was a jerk.
Well, I would recommend that you cut him out of your life since he obviously doesn't want to be in it and it will just cause problems. And I also think it would be a good idea to abort the baby, it is not easy nor cheap to raise a child alone, and you would want the child to have a decent life, and that is really hard with a single parent, especially if funds are low. It takes a lot out of you emotionally too raising a kid. You could try to get him for child support, but it is still hard being a single parent. I guess the real question is, do you really want/need a kid at the moment? I am sorry this all happened, it must be hard. Good luck.
Only a loser does that. He wants to go to war and kill people? Yup he's a monster. I don't care who you are, if you ever have to kill someone it's not funny and war is hell. If he is in the army not to worry because he will pay for your childs upbringing and the army will make sure of it. Especially if you have to go on social assistance and they find out who he is.
Sadly, a lot of guys do it. Happened to me!
YOU KNOW, I HAD THE SAME THING HAPPEN TO ME! I WAS 17 AND MY BOYFRIEND, WHO I CARED ALOT ABOUT, DROPPED ME LIKE A HOT ROCK WHEN HE FOUND OUT I WAS PREGNANT. BELIEVE ME, I WAS MUCH BETTER OFF AND I DID JUST FINE WITHOUT HIM IN OUR LIVES . I NOW HAVE 2 LITTLE GIRLS AND IM MARRIED TO A MAN THAT WANTED TO BE MY DAUGHTERS DAD, SO MY ADVICE IS TO HOLD UR HEAD HIGH AND PUSH ON- IT'LL BE OK, TRUST ME!!
In the military? Whoo, his commander sure wouldnt like to hear about whats going on, but thats beside the point. Your focus right now needs to be you and the baby. Stress is not good for either of you, and you dont need his butt to help you with a dang thing. I would let someone in his chain of command know that he has a child on the way, that way if hes gets deployed and then dies overseas, you will have a way of establishing paternity. They can get a sample now, and preserve it because if he has a dependant, the baby will have rights to benifits and such from the military. You havent been dating a monster, just an immature loser, you dont need him, and when you prove that to yourself, you will feel much better.
First, give him the benefit of the doubt, maybe he is just scared. But, if he doesnt eventually come around then yes, you have not only been dating a monster but an inconsiderate, punk *** monster!
It seems fairly obvious that he is not truly interested in you. More than likely, the thought of marriage and/or a baby with a woman he does not want to be with long term scared him. I am sorry to be so blunt but it is important that you think about your baby's best interest. If you will not be able to emotionally %26amp; financially raise the child by yourself (child support is not meant to cover all the child's need and provides no emotional support). Then you should think about adoption. Open adoption will allow you to remain in the child's life but you will not be responsible for care and support for the next 18+ years. Your child will have a good home and will know you love him/her. At the same time you will be able to start a new life and meet a man that truly loves you. Good luck. My prayers are with you and the baby.
I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but yes, you were dating a monster (or at least a jackass). The ';kind of guy'; who dumps the woman he was supposedly in love with because he got her pregnant is a jerk. There's just no other way to put it. As he obviously has no sense of responsibility to anyone but himself, his supposed ';honor and integrity'; are completely our the window. It doesn't matter that he chose to enlist in the military. Frankly, it wouldn't matter if he'd chosen to enter the priesthood...



As to how you get through this alone: you're not. I know it seems like it now, but you do have folks who care about you. Talk to people. Gather a real support group, a group of folks who you feel really care about you. Your family is a good start, and your local friends. Then there are those of us on the Internet (lots of us) who care enough to respond to a soul who's obviously involved in a major life-crisis. Again, you aren't alone.



Anyhow, I hope things improve, and I hope this little missive helps. It's hard to see someone dealing with the fallout from someone else's self-centered behavior.
he is a very selfish, low life coward who doesn't want to take responsibility.



yes you have been dating a monster.