Why does the guy with a girlfriend get the chick I'm in to?

So I like this girl (she's single). I bring her flowers, take her out on dates to fancy restaurants, call her every night, etc. I thought things were going great and then I find out this guy who has a girlfriend is chatting it up with her and she's totally in to him. They're texting back and forth about being horny for eachother.



She doesn't know about this and I'm wondering if she even cares if I know. I don't know what to do about it.



Should I find out who this guy's girlfriend is and tell her about how he's been cheating on her?



Should I get a PI and confront them both about it?



Should I blow this girl off.



.... I dunno. I need a good solution.Why does the guy with a girlfriend get the chick I'm in to?
His relationship with his girlfriend is between them. Dont worry, one day karma will be a b****.

For now, i would say, that you should definitely 'blow this girl off'. She definitely does not seem to care much about you and does not seem any good for you anyway. If she was doing this and she's single, imagine if she were with you. She does not seem like one to care and would most likely cheat on you or any guy she dates (if she liked someone else).

Definitely move on from this girl and leave the other a**whole alone. He'll get what he deserves one day..Why does the guy with a girlfriend get the chick I'm in to?
Girls like to think that they are better than other girls. So the fact that hes putting her over his girlfriend is probably the reason. Don't confront him or his girlfriend about it, as you will probably blow your chances with her. Just confront her and tell her how you feel, forgot to add, as someone else said, whatever you do, don't fight over it as she will be winning its not worth it. but if I was you I would let her go.
blow it off. it's not your place to get into the lies that will eventually become drama. it sucks you like her but what it comes down to is that if you are not close to these two other people chances are they (the girl you like and the guy) will spin you as some crazy obsessive guy and you will just end up looking like a nut, and won't be taken seriously by the actual girlfriend.... most likely at least.
ok if the girl is really that two faced, then she is probably not a good person to be in a relationship with. But just a lil tip: the flowers and stuff are nice, but sometimes when guys start doing all that stuff it can get a little boring, and she might just be looking for excitement...
be normal and then bring it up...what about what's his name? put her on the spot. the truth always come out sooner or later. confront the dude for sure. tell him thats not cool. be up-front about it. but don't ever fight. Remember....its always the girls decision. very important. or just let her fall flat on her face. it all depends how much do you really like this girl...is she worth it?
First, remember that only chumps spend money on women before they've slept with them. Stop being a chump, and don't be pissed that life is this way. Deal with it.



Second, stop getting hung up on any one girl. That's chump too. You sir need a higher volume dating strategy so you can kick these girls off your program when they misbehave.
obviously that girl is not worth your time. she sounds like a homewrecker and a whore...its mean to say, but it sounds like it. you sound like a caring guy, just forget her and move on. or if u like, u shud confront her and then dump her ***. juss hold your head up high, you will find someone for you.
Blow her off, don't mess with other peoples relationship she's obviously a hoe if you buy her nice things yet she doesn't care about you, and chat's with some pervert.
Money won't buy happiness. Become a warrior of the Shaolin temple and then come back and you will get an infinite amount of girls to select to give meaningless material things.
Blow her off. She's obviously not considerate enough to care about your feelings or well being while she knows you're into her.
maybe you should just get a life and find another girl to like this one is just not into you.. or stop being the nice guy and maybe she will be more into you ..
tell the girl you like that she needs to pick and choose him or you if she chooses him its her lost.
tell the guys gf
blow her off