I work the over night shift (10:30pm-6:30am, Sun-Thur) And she goes to school and work.We don't have much time with each other but when we do spend it.its great and nothing can go wrong.she goes out with her friends and I do the same.But this past weeks been really hard.Every time she spends time with friends she blows me off when i try to call.Its not like I call when they are hanging out but the whole week it feels like i can't call.so in other words when she spends time with her friend she blows me off all week N weekend and i can't call she even does that with them when she is with me.She acts very cold and rude.I tell her how she blows people off when she is forces on that person and no one else.She just says its in my head and I always want to spend time with her.I'm not even saying spend time with me everyday but a good hello not just oh hey,bye.
Shes been hanging with her best girl friend lately who is a not so good of a girl.This girls sleeps with other dudes acts very rude and thinks her **** does not stink.she leaves my girlfriend at a party when my girlfriend only went for her.Her friend is dating my girlfriends guy who she fouled around with.what I think is a slut thing to do.But every time when my girlfriend hangs with her, she acts very rudes and acts like she does not need me in her life.I told her how she acts but she just gets mad an yells at me saying ';if you keep on doing this i'm not going to be with you, you make me not want to spend time with you'; I don't know what to do this happens every few months but i'm at the point when i'm getting tired of these games,(everytime when I act cold and do not call,she calls me and wants to spend time with me) next sec my girlfriend is fine the next she has to act like a badgirl with her friend and blows me off acting like im holding her back from life.
I'm a guy whos trying to be a police officer and is looking for someone who is ready to settle down,have fun but yet does not need to act like a dumbass.she tells me she wants that too ,but when she hangs out with this friend she acts like she does not want me in her life..
Heres what happen tonight, we got into a fight so i went over her house.she was wearing makeup and looking like she was going out,she told me she was going to a gay bar with her gay friend.i was fine by that .So i asked her what time i should pick her up tomorrow(we had plans to hang out all day friday) she told me that shes going to see me in the afternoon becuase shes having something to eat with her friend.but she see me later that day.she told me this at 9pm never give me a heads up what so ever.
Like i said i told her about this but all we do is fight when i do talk about it
I don't know what to do? should I do something with my friends or what,i dont want to play games..don't know what to do.Did this ever happen to you? Girlfriend loves you to death and then when shes out with friends acts like ..?
It sounds to me like the girl you date is still very young, whereas you might not be all that much older but have perhaps grown up a lot more. Experimenting a little, making the wrong friends, being moody and unpredictable - they're all normal teenage behaviours. Perhaps you have grown out of that and are looking for a little more.
You might want to think this over a bit. You could wait for her to do a bit more growing up. Or perhaps you need to go and find someone to be with who has reached the same stage of life, who also wants to get settled and has grown out of playing games.Did this ever happen to you? Girlfriend loves you to death and then when shes out with friends acts like ..?
Yeah, You're done. You are being too available you need to walk out to regain your self respect.
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