How do I handle this situation?

This may be long and complicated but that's because it is and I am going to try my hardest to simplify it and shorten it down as much as possible but please read and help me figure this out.



I am an explorer with my towns PD. Of course most my friends are going to be from the program, all but one of my friends is an explorer. I spend just about everyday with these people for hours on end and have since may when I joined.

95% of the people in the program are guys. There are currently 2 girls in this program, me and one other girl and she has only hung out with us once or twice, so I have been the only girl when we go out to eat, when we do extra training, when we go to work out, when we just hang out, when we go over to each others houses.

One of the guys girlfriends has a HUGE problem with me now. I have never met her and the hostility coming from her is psychotic. I have heard some of the things she has said, she has called me a ';home wrecking b|tch';, said that if she sees me she will kick my a$$ and all this other stuff. She has forbidden her boyfriend to even text me, call me or even hang out with me with others around. He and I are best friends and have been before I even knew he had a girlfriend. I have no interest in him as more than a friend and NEVER will. These guys are like my brothers, I have no interest in any of them and I am in fact head over heals with a guy not in the program.

Here is the kicker. She is 16 and I am 20, 21 in 7 months. He is 18. I am WAY too old to be dealing with this high school type drama and want no part of it. I want this little girl to drop her psychotic act towards me because quiet frankly its getting old and I don't want to piss her off by hanging out with him and get him in trouble with her but at the same time he is my best friend and we ALL, a group of like 5 or 6 of us hang out everyday for hours on end, I sure as hell am not going to ever stay home from hanging out, I am not going sit and home and twiddle my thumbs while everyone is out chilling and its awful to exclude him from the group because his girlfriend has serious issues.



My friend has already said that she probably won't even talk to me, which is unacceptable, something needs to be worked out, seeing as she has never met me.



Thanks for reading if you did and please help me with this.How do I handle this situation?
';I am WAY too old to be dealing with this high school type drama and want no part of it.';



You just gave yourself the answer.



Take no part in it.



%26lt;3How do I handle this situation?
there is what a person should do, and what i would do. you should probably try to work it out with her. tell her that you did nothing wrong and try to be friendly as humanly possible. what i would do is simply slap her across her bitchy little face. I'm 22 and i've been through high school as well, and by no chance am i ever going to do it again.
From my own personal experience. It is jealousy that she has. Is there anyway that maybe she feels left out and is Jealous. My fiance has a friend and she is lesbian but she has kids and I just find it hard to believe that she does not want a man ever agian. So, she text or calls and calls him babe. He tells me that she calls everyone babe and I just find it that if she wants to be friends with him or have me be ok with it she needs to talk to him like a dude NOT like a girl. You need to live your life for you and not worry about your friends girl friend. My bf never hangs out with this girl but it will probably have to be an open invite for me to come along. She will have to like me or she wont have a friend. Same for you, she may be 16 but she is a women and women have jealousy issues from birth. Have a night out with everyone, Like a bowling or movies and out to eat with ALL OF your friends until this girl can except that you just dont want her man. You can say that you dont but showing it is better.
shes 16??? your 20 your an adult shes a teen that has nothing better to do with her life then to start drama!
Hmm well first off, like you said, she is 16 and you are 20. you shouldn't even be worrying about this. tell her that there is nothing going on and that she needs to shut up. I would just call her and tell her.