Love Problems?

Friday night I went out to a party and I saw this amazingly beautiful girl that I met before but didn鈥檛 really get to know her at that stage, well we certainly got to know each other last week, after we were chatting the whole of the evening. There was some kissing and nice words for each other. bottom-line she got a boyfriend! The next morning she text me and ask how do I feel and that last night was nice.... we started texting each other each day +- 30 times a day. I can feel that I can have a great relationship with this women, she is really amazing! Tomorrow night she is coming to visit me, and we both are really looking forward to it. I don鈥檛 know what to do and how to handle the situation. She said that she is not going to leave a boyfriend because she don鈥檛 want to hurt him! I had serious issues getting over my ex and this is the first time I feel comfortable with another women after her! I don鈥檛 want to mess with another guys girlfriend but I think we suite each other great!Love Problems?
You red flag has been waved and announced she has a boyfriend so your amazing girl may be beautiful on the outside but her inside is in question. If she didn't want to hurt her boyfriend she wouldn't be doing what she is doing. And if she had any REAL feelings towards you she would be doing to you what she is doing. She is using you for self flattery. Dump her. Get over it. Move on. And find someone that is worth while.Love Problems?
thanks bro that helps alot

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you are asking for trouble. If you are the next bf, who will be the next you?????
If she's intrested in u she needs to leave her boyfriend, and y would she be kissing u if she has a boyfriend... its like she's cheating on him right..? u gotta let her know
Screw that other dude. If he was a real man then his woman would be on lockdown and not wandering into your arms. It ain't your fault hes a *****. Handle her.
I dont think that you really know her. You met once and been exchanging messages for a while but that's nothing. If she really cares about you she would leave her boyfriend. As you know leaving him is much more better than cheating on him. Put yourselve in his shoes, and you might be one day, would you prefer her to leave you or cheat on you. Dont follow your lust, try to find a better person for yourselve or try to convence her to break with her boyfriend.
Don't mess with another guy's girl, bottom line. Just keep it on a friendly basis, no more kissing and definitely nothing else. If its you that she really wants it'll happen, but right now you do not want to contribute to breaking up someone's relationship. If she doesn't want to let her boyfriend go, then move on. There are plenty other women out there.
Don't let this girl hurt you, and don't let her bf hurt you ;]

If she likes you why not go for her, just be careful that she is not using you,

because she is already doing the same to her current boyfriend
well, if you don't want to mess with other guys gf, then don't. It just wrong, dude.

if you guys are really suite for each other, why isn't she make up her mind? are you seeing what you want to see here only? and do you want to get involve with a girl who doesn't think twice about kissing a texting a guy when she's already in a relationship? I call that a cheater. and a person who's trying to stick his/her nose in someone's gf or bf a loser.
She suit you bur remember you said she has a boyfriend.Messing with her is a prescription to disaster.She will try you and if it does not work out like she thought,she is going to keep her boyfriend.seriously you have to weigh the consequence,would you like someone to cheat on you or your girlfriend?she doesn't suit you,she is someones girlfriend,and please don't Kidd your self.If she wants you enough,she would break it off with her current boyfriend.